So I asked that girl is she'd want to hang out sometime

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And she said "i dont know ..... sure" waited few seconds then said she had to get back to her department.

My sister says I must caught her off guard and should wait a few days to ask again or suggest a hangout.

Is this bad or good 0.o :s

Try again in a few days.

Maybe offer a concrete plan, like going and having a drink in a coffee shop. A time besides normal meal hours is likely to be quieter.

Was this the girl you had a crush on?

It's good that you asked.

And don't talk politics LOL

Well I say celebrate,

That is a much better result then I have had, most women make fun of me when I ask but that is another topic. I would say the fact she said sure shows it wasn't an outright no. Though usually the thought here is anything other then an enthusiastic YES is bad but I take it you asked when she was working cause of the department comment. In which yes, you probably caught her off guard.

+1 concrete plan,

Maybe the frozen yorgut place near the store we work at?

Yes we work in the same store. She came up to cover my break.
I dont know what to make of it. I thought she'd say no

Guess I shouldn't bother being as I'm unloavwable. Even if she did like me she won't once she finders out I'm an aspie. Aspies are the worse and most unwanted it seems

She probably doesn't mind you, to say the least.

Yes, good idea. Try it.

I dont know if I should anymore, what right to I have to potential doom her to a horrible relationship?

That self-defeatist attitude will get you nowhere. If you talk yourself out of trying all the time like that you really are doomed to be forever alone; but it's because you won't take a chance, not because you're a horrible person. Probably there is someone out there who will love you, but if you're afraid to ask them because you think being with you would be a fate worse than death you will never find out.

So ask her. We're waiting to see how it turns out.

So coworker who talks to me sometimes asked her sister(who also works here) if she had a BF and was told she(the girl) isn't wanting bf right now.

What's that mean?

That thread about how bad aspie men are really got to me. I've never been in a relationship so will I suddenly change like they say and not want love and to be touched?

We don't always work same days or shifts. I saw her today as she left but she was on phone and kinda upset. In order to ask again if I should(see above post) I'd need to get her alone again. I'm super anxious and shy around women even more so around ones I have a crush on. I can't ask when she's around other coworkers and people I just can't I freeze up

There's another woman who confuse the heck out of me. Why do she stop and talk to me 0.o most just ignore me or give me mean stares.