If he had done so many crappy things in our marriage and relationship and too much BS, this would have been the last straw he has done and I would be thinking about filing for a divorce already and move on. This is the worst ever he has ever done. He knew how important this was to me and does he tell me about it? No. So I had to suffer a mental breakdown because of it and not be able to care for my children and have my parents do all the work and be a burden because I am so ill mentally. Yeah how am I going to forgive him for this? He is going to have to make an effort now to earn my love again and so I am over being so angry about this.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.