xon wrote:
Before making any major romantic commitments, regarding marriage, for example, I think it would be best to meet the online friend in real-life first, but there may be exceptions to that rule, and maybe yours was one of them.
Tequila wrote:
Er, are you off your head? If you liked someone, you'd have to go and meet them and get to know them all over again. It's an imperative, really. Otherwise you're just conducting a fantasy Internet saddo relationship to keep yourself amused.
Tequila, you're echoing me. It sounds Tim_Tex was talking about major decisions being made, for example, MARRIAGE, purely online. The girl said online she would marry him, without them ever having met in person. That is what I considered a not so good idea. And that's basically what you're saying, too, right? I did add, however, that is certain circumstances decision of this nature, purely online, would be okay. But in most cases, no, it would not. (Tim_Tex didn't mention the both of them meeting in person, which I assume would have been an important point in their relationship, so I assumed they haven't.)