Flake wrote:
if you are a smoker then you are hooked on an extremely addictive substance. its not simply a matter of choice, your an addict. i would say that most smokers, if they could flick a switch and stop instantly with no repercissions, would flick that switch. unfortunately, *giving up* can be a long arduous process and stress and axiety becomes amplified for a period, its quite strange actually. so, dont give them too much of a hard time, just leave a few *give up smoking* leaflets around the house, and offer some positive support, very important that. smoking sucks, i gotta give up too, dreading it a bit
If you are severely allergic to smoke, being around smokers is not a matter of choice. You simply cannot, period. There is no option to dine in the "non smoking" section of a resturaunt because the smoke does not know where it is, and is not allowed to be. There is no option to visit the homes, or ride in the cars of friends or family who smoke because even if they do not smoke while you are there you can not even inhale without choking on the air that surrounds you because this environment is so saturated with smoke. You simply cannot *exist* any place where there is smoke, and that is hard.
Smokers can exist perfectly well in a smoke free environment without being hauled off by an ambulance. I don't think many people give others a hard time because of the fact that they smoke, I think they give them a hard time because so many smokers are so insistant that it is there right to smoke anywhere they please, regardless on the effects on others. Not all smokers, of course. There are some who are perfectly courteous. The laws need to be inplace because there are so many who are not.
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