If its not my uncle....

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.... its my husband... see, if I have a seasonal job in the spring/summer, it makes sense for my husband to stay home because he has chronic illnesses and several medications and hospital visits... But he insists its not safe! Ive gone on several of these jobs before by myself... I dont need a babysitter!! ! Im in my 30's... I dont want to be held back by my mental problems or a 55 year old husband, is this selfish???

As a female, my question to you is
why isn't it safe?

He thinks he has to guard me, and a job outside...

Anyway the main problem is the health insurance... He really isnt healthy enough to be gone from his doctors 2 months.

Edit: this work is done close to a car and he wants to be in the car as I work. I think this is rediculous and if anything happened to him like his sugar getting low ( hes a bad diabetic) or him simply being there would disrupt things. I used to work and live by myself all the time.

My apologies for being confused by your last post.
I can understand if you'd rather not answer my previous question in detail
publicly over the Internet.

I could take all kinds of fun guesses as to what kind of seasonal work you might be doing near a car,
but anyways, am not sure how to advise you at this point.

Meanwhile, I wish you the best.