I keep worrying about what will happen to me when I'm old

Page 1 of 1 [ 3 posts ] 

Joe90
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Feb 2010
Gender: Female
Posts: 26,492
Location: UK

04 May 2017, 6:04 pm

Because I'm rather useless and will probably always be in jobs with lower wages, and I'm unlikely to have kids (unless I adopt, to avoid going through pregnancy), I often worry about what will happen to me when I'm old. Who will pay for care for me? I won't get a pension apparently, and by the time I'm 70 I'd still have to work. So what if I get Dementia at around 70, and I live alone and become unable to do things for myself? Will I just be left to starve or die some other way in agony, all alone, and be found as a mummified corpe 10 years later? When I'm old I want to spend my last years of my life being cared for in a home, with lots of other people around to talk to. But I won't have any money to pay for care. I probably won't even have enough money to live anywhere, so I suppose I'll be thrown out on the streets, as a poor, confused, innocent, frightened little old lady. :cry:

I know I shouldn't spend my young, healthy, social days being worried sick about this but does every old person have to have money behind them to be able to have care? It's a frightening thought.


_________________
Female


danieldoesnotexist
Pileated woodpecker
Pileated woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 26 Apr 2017
Gender: Male
Posts: 189

04 May 2017, 6:11 pm

I don't worry about stuff like this because I know I would've killed myself far before any of this would happen.

Why would anybody even want to live that long?


_________________
Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 189 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 19 of 200

wtf


248RPA
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 29 Oct 2015
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,021
Location: beyond the Wall

04 May 2017, 6:23 pm

danieldoesnotexist wrote:
Why would anybody even want to live that long?

Many possibilities

-Because they still have something or someone to live for
-Because they are afraid of death
-Because they still find joy at that age
-Because they believe their time is not up yet
-Other reasons


_________________
Life ... that's what leaves the mess. Mad people everywhere.