No future and no friends

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I don't have any friends at all, no one likes me, eventually every group of friends kicks me out of the group due to how annoying I am. I have no future in a career. I will likely die alone.

Oh dear... Sending my sympathy Have you considered online friends? Or, instead of a group of friends, try looking for just one friend. I don't know your exact situation, but it might be true that your family love you unconditionally.

Me too about the friends part. I have no friends aside from my dog and husband. Yes, I am married but DH is a freak of nature.
Every other friend, family member, group has tossed me out.
I only get to do real friend stuff with DH once or twice a year. He works 6 days a week and is always tired.

I do have friends, but we have drifted, massively to the point where we do not really see each other. I am 35 I have grown out of hanging around dingy apartments, smoking dope, playing computer games, talking BS. If I stay in I want to drink wine, play scrabble and talk about life and the world. I want to go out, do things, see shows, go to the football, travel, see the world with people. My friends don't pull themselves up, they are stuck in a rut. But sadly I got ill, mentally, spent a decade in almost isolation, never went to college or anything so find it hard, impossible, to find people to share my life, my passions with.

It is frustrating sad and lonely isn't it. But do not put yourself down, don't think that people do not like you, that you are annoying, that you are thrown out. Maybe that is just in your own head, maybe you have not found the right people for you yet, the place where you fit in. But don't put yourself down. It is hard, been by yourself, I know, but do not make it worse by having negative thoughts about your self and your worth.

I have no friends, either, and I prefer it that way. No one to aggravate or irritate me. As far as a future is concerned, I like playing music and writing fiction. I don't play music anymore because I'm homeless, but I hope to get back to writing once I secure a small place. Then, who knows? Maybe I might get back to playing guitar again.

I'm enjoying your book about "James," Robin.

(At the risk of derailing this thread) Thanks, KK. I appreciate that.

my "friends" are online, the distances separate us greatly. I have my sister in town at least.