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hurtloam
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15 Dec 2018, 2:08 pm

I organised a party and only 1 person turned up.

What the hell happened. My life was going so well and everything has fallen apart over the last few weeks.

Got my heart broken again. Thought I'd found someone who actually cared too.

I'm just so disappointed.



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15 Dec 2018, 3:18 pm

People are very busy this time of year. It's hard to get them to add anything to their schedule. Seriously.

Anyway, I hope you feel better soon.


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15 Dec 2018, 3:38 pm

Did they say they were going attend?
If so that’s rude of them.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:09 pm

Everyone had legit reasons



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15 Dec 2018, 5:16 pm

Aw man I've just realised what's wrong with me. I forgot to pick up my prescription. I've been off my meds for a few days.

Can't believe depression is clouding round me so quickly.

Must remember to pick them up on Monday.



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15 Dec 2018, 5:23 pm

I think any more than two or three people at a party is too many. You were maybe lucky.



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15 Dec 2018, 8:34 pm

oh my hurtloam! dropping on medication is horrible experience. please hold on, and please, PLEASE consult ur doctor before taking meds again!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! u might need a re-titring!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! please dont take full doze at once, it could really hurt u!! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! consult a doctor, do it safe way, after several days off u need to be careful!! !! !! !! !
sorry for a lot of explanation sighns, its really dangerous!! !! !! !


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15 Dec 2018, 8:42 pm

I console myself at such times, that "some days are diamonds, some days are stones."



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16 Dec 2018, 2:35 am

hurtloam wrote:
Everyone had legit reasons

I’ve never been invited to a party. I think if I was I might try to attempt going.
Was it a Christmas party?



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16 Dec 2018, 3:22 am

sly279 wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
Everyone had legit reasons

I’ve never been invited to a party. I think if I was I might try to attempt going.
Was it a Christmas party?


No a new family moved in near me and I was having a few people over to introduce them too. Winter maybe not the best time for that.



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16 Dec 2018, 3:24 am

serpentari wrote:
oh my hurtloam! dropping on medication is horrible experience. please hold on, and please, PLEASE consult ur doctor before taking meds again!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! u might need a re-titring!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! please dont take full doze at once, it could really hurt u!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! consult a doctor, do it safe way, after several days off u need to be careful!! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
sorry for a lot of explanation sighns, its really dangerous!! ! ! ! ! !


Thank you for your concern. The Dr put me on the lowest dose and I've been taking that for 6 months, thats why im surprised it's only taken a week for me to unravel

I really think the dark days have been a major factor in my depression at the moment.

So when I start up again I'm taking the same dose I first started on.



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16 Dec 2018, 4:18 am

okay. sorry for jumping, i've had an exprience with that. i panicked a a bit. okay, not a bit. a week wihtout meds means, that u went thru all the decline stages. skipping for more than 1 day means, that ur system loses it's equilibrum. that stuff really is time-sensitive. thank f**k it was a low dose, with relatively high doze its a real hell. please take care, or better even let somebody take care of u, if possible. this state is dangerous.


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