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Sarahsmith
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16 Dec 2018, 5:01 pm

I really want someone to have fun with. Thats what I miss tonight. Theres a woman next to my room that keeps inviting her man over. I had to listen to them having sex last night. It reminded me when I had a boyfriend to have fun with. Men dont seem very interested in me anymore. I lack the proper social skills to meet anyone. Only one guy I had no interest in wanted to date me recently.
A couple guys from plenty of fish wanted to meet me but I was too scared because I didnt know them and I have autism so Im scared that strangers will take advantage of me or something.

I dont know how to get a boyfriend but I want one.



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16 Dec 2018, 6:28 pm

I suggest you get involved with some kind of social group and participate regularly. That way, aside from feeling less lonely, you can observe any particular guy and get a sense of his morals and integrity before anything develops.

There's no point at all in using a dating app if you're too afraid to meet up with anyone.


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17 Dec 2018, 4:38 am

BeaArthur wrote:
I suggest you get involved with some kind of social group and participate regularly.


Socializing can also provide opportunities to practice and develop your social skills. Such experience may really help when you meet someone you might like to get to know better.



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17 Dec 2018, 6:44 am

Sarahsmith wrote:
I really want someone to have fun with. Thats what I miss tonight. Theres a woman next to my room that keeps inviting her man over. I had to listen to them having sex last night. It reminded me when I had a boyfriend to have fun with. Men dont seem very interested in me anymore. I lack the proper social skills to meet anyone. Only one guy I had no interest in wanted to date me recently.
A couple guys from plenty of fish wanted to meet me but I was too scared because I didnt know them and I have autism so Im scared that strangers will take advantage of me or something.

I dont know how to get a boyfriend but I want one.


Something might come of that art and craft thing you talked about, do that. It might be that you make a friend there and then meet somebody through them later down the line.