What's wrong with wishing other people dead?

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Seriously, I'm the odd one out on this planet. I am one in about 100 women who is fat. I see skinnier and more attractive women on a daily basis, and they make me feel like s**t in comparison. In fact, I actually made a list of famous women who should die or at least suffer because they all have skinny bodies. I know other WP women here have skinny bodies here too, and they also have men in their lives who love them even more because they are skinny.

I want lipo so bad, but it's too expensive, and my insurance won't cover it. I f*****g hate not being able to see my privates like I used to, and I have gained about 40 pounds within the past two years because I was cooped up in a f*****g apartment with no treadmill or sidewalks.

I wish people dead sometimes because they are more attractive than I am, and better than me in hobbies and video games. I hate myself so much, I wish I wasn't so miserable.

Do you live in a place now with a big enough room to walk back and forth in? Thats what I do in my room because I hate going out every day for a walk. It has kept me in shape.

You want people to "die or suffer" because of their body type?

You "wish they were dead"?

You're criticising a WP member for (presumably) being thinner and smarter than you?

Please stop using Wrong Planet to spread hate speech against other women.
It seems that you need professional help, and I hope you are able to find it.

I wouldn't bother with liposuction. It doesn't magically make a person thin. you can lose about 2lbs. safely that way. If a person, can't make lifestyle changes the weight won't stay off anyway. People usually end up heavier and with lipo scars. Not really a great situation.

Either accept yourself as you are, or do the work. There aren't any magic pills or shortcuts.

well i am fat. and i dont like my body. but i cant see why is that a problem of anybody else. i made the choice for food addictions, over-eating and being overweight. its only my fault, nobody's else. and ukno that some skinny women would maybe like to have a heavier frame, but they are stuck with what genetics gave them, too?
its not like i dont have hate. i do. i hate xenophobia, i hate extremists, i hate stupidity and bygotry. i hate powertripping and elitism. very passionately. but hating somebody for mere physical appearence, is beyond my understanding.

Reminds me of this TV spot from the Eighties.

Also, I have tried seeking help, and nothing is helping!

Perhaps you can focus your anger into losing weight by forcing yourself to use your treadmill. That way you can feel better about yourself and your anger isn't misdirected.

I tried exercising, but the pounds refuse to come off.

I guess I don't fit in anywhere. Not here, not with video gamers, not with other cat lovers. I don't know why God didn't abort me, because it seems to be the only solution. I suck at my hobbies and trying to exercise.

Why do you want to attract sleazy men?

You do fit in: we're glad to have you here, but just think you need to work on issues with anger/hatred/irrational ill will.

As for exercise, it has to be a long term thing. Why not buy yourself a set of freeweights? They're cheap, small and fairly effective.