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ReginaNightstalker
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12 Apr 2020, 10:15 pm

Anyone have sensory seeking behaviors that are actually erotically stimulating? If anyone has ever heard of Objectum sexuality, then I pretty much have to say I am that way because I am in love with old school buildings that have the wood elements in them. There is something about the classrooms that are attractive. I'm attracted to the classrooms at my old high school strongly. I think the wood framed boards are attractive and the hallways with the clerestory windows. I sometimes feel like I want to sensually caress it. I have a think for loving to feel cold smooth surfaces and I just love to feel whiteboards. There's something pleasurable about it that's both relaxing and erotically stimulating.I love it. I'm 30 by the way and still live at home. My parents find my fixation with them as a mental illness and insanity. I just can't get them to understand that I just like it because it feels good.I love the classrooms because they're beautiful. They inspired so many great art works and experimental concepts that I have been working on for about 15 years now. I miss those classrooms so bad. All I have are pictures and the place is being renovated. It makes me sad because they are replacing the boards with TVs and I fear all the woodwork will be gone. Sometimes I just dream of being wrapped up in the place just feeling it surrounding me and caressing my bare skin. Yes, a bit erotic there. I have a small whiteboard at home that I just love to massage myself with and caress from time to time.It feels so good. But my parents think I'm insane because of all the ever changing childhood fixations that I have had. I'm saddened because I really feel pleasure from it and don't want to lose it. Is anyone else relatable? I'm being called childish because I love to just play around with a whiteboard. Why it feels so good to me I'll never know.



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13 Apr 2020, 4:02 am

That's a bit new to me but seems not as special as well after reading Geschlechtsverirrungen of Magnus Hirschfeld. May be this is the English version https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/118 ... erversions but I'm not sure.
But I guess your partner shouldn't be against some sex in an old classroom as long as he's not just an idiot. :mrgreen:


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13 Apr 2020, 4:08 am

If it feels good to you then it feels good to you. Thats OK and I dont see why anyone else needs to make you feel that its not right, whats it to them?

Im sure that with a little imagination and ingenuity you can recreate in some way by adding to the objects that you have the feelings that buidings you describe give you. As with most things in life there is usually a way.


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13 Apr 2020, 8:39 am

Good to know I'm not crazy. It feels so bad not being understood and I don't want to make anyone look bad. I told my psychiatrist everything and I hope she want tell me to throw it out because it feels so comforting. I sleep with the thing sometimes. I feel a major shift in my life about to happen. That may be getting a job or moving. I've yet to know.



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13 Apr 2020, 8:52 am

Hope that it goes OK Regina - keep us updated!


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13 Apr 2020, 9:56 am

I don’t find this stimulating....but I don’t see a problem with this thread, either.



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13 Apr 2020, 10:08 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don’t find this stimulating....but I don’t see a problem with this thread, either.
Have you read The Rules lately?  Have you ever read The Rules?
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13 Apr 2020, 10:21 am

What the eff, man.

What is your problem?



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13 Apr 2020, 10:24 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
What the eff, man.  What is your problem?
I have none.  What is yours?


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13 Apr 2020, 10:34 am

My problem is the way you talk to me.

Nobody talks to me that way.

I don’t disrespect you like you just did me.

Damn right I read the rules.

Now, act like you learned something being some sort of missionary. About how to treat people with respect.



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13 Apr 2020, 10:43 am

What's all the fighting about?

It almost seems like a post got deleted. One about a problem being "stimulating" and one about a post being inappropriate?

We should all try to be laid back as much as possible. (not a double entendre, thank you very much)


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13 Apr 2020, 10:48 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
My problem is the way you talk to me.  Nobody talks to me that way.  I don’t disrespect you like you just did me.  Damn right I read the rules.  Now, act like you learned something being some sort of missionary.  About how to treat people with respect.
I learned a lot about being a missionary.  I learned that there are two basic types of missionary -- one that points out the sins and calls out the sinners, and the other that says everything is fine because sins aren't really sinful.

The OP has been reported for breaking a rule that applies to everybody all of the time.  You should understand that.  At this point, it's up to the moderators, not us.  You should understand that too.

And if you feel that I have violated a rule in this, then report me.

It's just that simple.


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13 Apr 2020, 10:56 am

I’m just pointing out your nastiness.

There’s a way to talk to people. Missionaries are taught to be diplomatic for practical reasons.

I’ve been spoken to like crap most of my life. It ain’t going to happen again.

You didn’t violate a rule. I didn’t violate a rule. I’m just making a point.

I’m not going to punk out by reporting you. That’s the punk way to go about things.

I just felt like you didn’t have to talk to me in the manner which you talked to me. That’s it.



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13 Apr 2020, 11:00 am

Since you claim to know so much about missionaries ... re-read Matthew 5:39, and then get back to me.


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13 Apr 2020, 11:12 am

Fnord wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I don’t find this stimulating....but I don’t see a problem with this thread, either.
Have you read The Rules lately?  Have you ever read The Rules?
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blooiejagwa wrote:
behavior intended to provoke or belittle other members
No such intent was intended.


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