Weird former friend

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Last week, while I was on my way to take care of business, I saw a former friend getting off a mobility bus across the street. Though we both agreed that it’s not a good idea for us to be friends, she promised we could be polite to each other. So I said hi to her, she turned and looked at me out of the corner of her eye before continuing to walk inside the building.

Though I get she is not interested in me or maintaining contact, she has gotten to be really stuck on herself and especially since she married her husband. Still, that is no excuse to be a snob.

I have decided I am not going to reach out to her anymore and even in passing. If she can’t keep her promise and treat me like that, I figure I don’t owe her a thing. Besides, she’s weird.

I can't blame you. Especially as she has snobs up her nose. Yuck!

She admitted to me that she has had a history being someone she is not. However, she’s a major jerk.

I wanted to post something else

First, I came here to vent because I felt very upset after seeing her and attempting to do my part by wanting to be a peace with her. That being said, I will get mad at her anytime there is some interaction between us.

1. She pushes my buttons and doesn't care
2. She doesn't know how to treat me and which I low tolerance for
3. She only seems to think about herself and has the tendency to play the victim card and especially so she can get away with being acting anyway she wants next to treating people any way she wants.
4. She is very arrogant because she's a disabled woman who is married while everyone else in the disability community is beneath her. ]
5. She's so fake, she makes Barbie look real
6. She's also very manipulative

Second, I don't have the time or the energy to invest in someone like that and I have moved on with my life. I have also met lots of other people who can appreciate me and vice versa.

Third, we just were never that compatible to begin with and I am ok with that.

If I had a "friend" like that, I would ghost them.

There were two times where I almost cut her from my life and I wish I would have because that "Friendship" was toxic from the get go. It would only take her 3 1/2 years later to do me favor the honor of cutting me loose from her life. As much as it hurt, things have been much more peaceful. All she does is jerk me around or contact me if there is some obligation. I don't need that.

I am not going to even try to just say, "Hi" and "Bye," and even if I hear from her or bump into her, I will not respond, period.