I feel like someone that everyone else hates

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I seem to think well, its probably no wonder people are not talking to me anymore. I hardly get anyone who is a ''mutual friend'' talking to me anymore. I used to post a lot of mainly negative posts on social media possibly as a way of getting people to notice it and then talk to me. But I seem to feel that even though some people did speak to me and would give me some advice. But for some reason I would carry on posting and not always take the advice on board and I seem to think that has that just ended disillusioning people from wanting to talk to me and now a lot of the time I just get blanks from people and that they have blocked me and then I take it personally and also think that everyone hates me.

Now though I've stopped posting those things on social media and instead message people but that seems not to have made things any better either and I still get ignored. I can't even get myself to want to use social media positively by posting anything happy that has happened in my day or post any interesting photos like I used to. Even then, I still got little attention from people to those things and in the end I stopped doing it and now nearly all the time I'm on it I find myself messaging people things which are nearly always negative. I feel universally hated now and think I've done it too much now that people will just ignore me, block me or whatever.

It's a good lesson you've learned, just try to apply it more
Now you know not to wallow in negativity too much , you could join a social club and apply yo knowledge there.

I don't hate you. I usually reply to your threads but you don't often reply back. But I do understand that you're not obliged to reply back, which is why it's a shame there's no ''like'' button here.

I know that I can't force people to befriend me because that friendship isn't going to last and that I keep telling myself well if someone doesn't want to talk or befriend me well that's their loss and just move. I still though beat myself up in my own head because it feels like its my fault and then at times I've felt like blaming them when I shouldn't as know its not their fault either.

I don't hate you Chris. Those who hate you are probably not ones that I would want to associate with either, so don't worry about it.

Sometimes people may not always read posts. Is nothing personal. Just depends on the subject etc.

Yeah it's not hatred just people reading the same thing and tuning it out. I don't look at Facebook cos Of those cheesy posts with the text in the image saying things like:
If someone doesn't love you they don't deserve you!! !!

Over and over again. I tune those out and block the person posting them.

Hate is an extremely strong emotion. There is only one person in this world who I truly hate, but for most people I don't really have much feelings at all for them. Li can take or leave them.

I doubt people hate you. You need to put things into perspective sometimes.

Even if we're not negative, I've noticed people on the spectrum in general are hated by the larger population.

I don't know why. We don't tend to be jerks; we're just different.

How come being different is seen as such a crime?

For that matter, general society appears to view us as even WORSE than criminals. Most hardened criminals had active social lives before they went in, have active social lives behind bars, and continue having active social lives when they get out.

The average person is more willing to associate with a felon than with us. Absurd.

No don't be sorry. I was wrong to say that actually. You must be feeling really lonely to feel such a way.

I like my job and have some hobbies but for some reason I seem unwilling to want to take any photos of what I am doing, or always come on social media and express something positive. I used to post photos on here but I've stopped uploading because I felt like it wasn't getting any attention or comments.

I've not seen any of your photos.