Won't forgive others:
I won't forgive my exh for 26 years of emotional, physical, and legal abuse against my children which continues to this day and has given them both PTSD. He went so far as to sue our daughter in court, calling her a liar about having Autism and about her other serious medical conditions. He even challenged all of her female doctors against their findings and threatened to sue them that they were wrong. He hurt me in many ways as well but I can forgive him for that, I suppose. I can't forgive him for hurting our children. He's diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and he's an extremely manipulative POS.
Likewise, another narcissistic bully who treated my children terribly with psychological, emotional, and legal abuse.
Won't forgive me:
I have no idea, because I'm sure people don't tell me these things.
Most certainly my exh although I'm not sure what I did wrong, other than defending my children's best interests.
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Beatles