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Highly_Autistic
Deinonychus
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23 Jul 2023, 6:36 pm

Well this has been a problem my whole life.

I did not have many friends, don't have any at the moment. Did not really want to socialise or fit in, i was not very interested in people, i don't like most of them but still its a problem. So, lack of talking practice, led to inexperience in communication, not to mention aspergers. Now as a 25 year old i need to get something done or get a job, earn a living and leave parents home. In fact its very annoying, being forced to talk to people to live independantly.

Anyways, i hope you got my message. That's all for this week



MatchboxVagabond
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23 Jul 2023, 8:40 pm

Highly_Autistic wrote:
Well this has been a problem my whole life.

I did not have many friends, don't have any at the moment. Did not really want to socialise or fit in, i was not very interested in people, i don't like most of them but still its a problem. So, lack of talking practice, led to inexperience in communication, not to mention aspergers. Now as a 25 year old i need to get something done or get a job, earn a living and leave parents home. In fact its very annoying, being forced to talk to people to live independantly.

Anyways, i hope you got my message. That's all for this week

TBH, you'd be surprised by just how little you need to talk. Obviously, that doesn't include work, that usually requires talking. There's many immigrants that barely talk outside of their community, but interact with many others.