Coheirase control and munchaeon by proxy & parents sabotage

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Coheirase control and munchaeon by proxy & parents sabotage


Discussion on my human rights being protected and to prevent Muncheon by proxy. Family interfering ,causing trouble or sabotaging any potential connection or relationship I have or make. Coheiress control. Dysfunctional and messed up abnormal behaviour, over the top . Deflecting every issue they have onto me. This isn't them being protective this is abuse. I know about safe relationships and Claire's law and Sarah laws, how to be safe. This is them trying to control and manipulate and prevent me from being happy.


Theirs even people with down syndrome disabled and severely disabled that have relationships a right to marriage ect

Even criminals and druggies and they have families too and more support . People that are sick and disabled still have a right to love and be with whomever or talk to whomever without cohesive control and isolated so why should I suffer. Theirs people that are lying cheats, abusers and narcissists in relationships and those that are horrible and neglectful to kids and don't deserve them.

I want protection so that my family don't repeat anything from the past I'm not asking for much. I shouldn't even need to ask what is a basic right. I should be aloud to talk to whomever date whom I choose and say how I feel without being silenced or stopped.

I have sound mind and full capacity despite mild Asperger's and health issues but theirs protection and then theirs control. This is coheirase control
Since I was in my early 20s this has been an issue. No wonder Rose gypsy Blanchard lost it.


As long as I have my phone and can date without there interference again that's all that matters. They used to ask too for there mobile numbers before they decided "I'm not allowed to date" incase something happened to me . Due to there past behaviour they won't be given there mobile number either. They've gotten worse so hopefully an advocate can intervene or the law to prevent them from taking away my devices, contacting them and doing things and doing this again. Social services do nothing nor the police


Don't be surprised if my family repeat things and contact social services and the police yet again and harass any man I talk too

They did it 2017 and between 2019-2022 respectively

My parents,they would bully and harass any guy I meet. I need someone to legally intervene and stop this reoccurrence. I'm scared that my dad would interfere in any potential relationships I have again and my mum even down to taking away my devices,locking me away or chucking me out with nothing to doing what my mum's dad did allegedly and phone someone up at there work to threaten them or physically arrive there or contact them ect to split me and anyone up. They don't want me to date or have a family and told me this behind closed doors.

They'll do anything to stop it even before stopping me from accessing the kitchen to get food when out incase I get to a phone ect and prevented me from using a TV box

I want my own life and my legal rights protected always I'm finding it hard to meet people generally and also it doesn't help that my parents interfere too much and silenced me and took away my phone and devices and contacted a guy to stop him from pursuing me back in 2019 My dad was questioned by police for stuff he said online and whilst he took my devices


The barrier is family that will take away my phone or contact any potential person and interfere again or cause trouble and sabotage.

the social wont help if I'm on the streets or do anything because I'm not a single mum or foreigner so not a priority. I can't afford to live alone

Most people get a chance to get to know someone and when the time right move in with them.

I'm just a number on a system of a long waiting list not a human with rights thoughts or feelings.its a long process too. Theirs no emergency help either. No phone and purse I got driving license but they got the rest. If anything happens again like it did 2019 I'll have only that minus a phone or laptop.

I was chucked out once for refusing to give up talking to someone I was out of the house no phone or purse and no where to go and theirs no emergency housing. It's one extreme or another. Either smothered and controlled or chucked in the deep end and filled with fear.

Unlike 2019 I'm not in that scenario now but when I start dating again I need help implemented and support and backup incase of a repeat that's what I'm trying to say Its dysfunctional and abnormal for adult children when parents are interfering

i hope what I'm saying is relatable and I mean no disrespect but if I had down syndrome or looked physically or mentally disabled I get help. If I look ok I don't but despite any physical or neuro diversity it's still wrong .still should have the right to not be silenced freedom of speech right to date ect. It's on record the confiscation of my devices and what my dad did online and the police and relevant people and authorities all know. I am of sound mind and had assessment and was only mildly depressed but I have full mental capacity Just want to make something clear though. I am grateful to now still have a roof over my head and food water and shelter and appreciate my family for looking after me growing up.

They go way over the top and overreact about every little thing but I've tried to explain this to them before and say I feel like they don't consider my human rights and feelings and only want me to exist for them . Also how I feel they don't want this for me because of my brother ect I do feel like my parents have been selfish Normal healthy parents want there children to be happy and have loving caring relationships Mine don't It went on till may 2020 and imagine during lockdown adds on TV talk about connecting with others and I had no devices and was under surveillance and they monitored my every move ect.

Yes it's all embarrassing and crazy especially at my age but it all really happened. Wasn't until my dad got in trouble for whatever he did online and had access to my old ect ect that action was taken and he got a warning and I got my phone back If they prevent me from meeting people or potentially having a family and hold me back and ruin my relationships with interference and control

They'll interfere in my relationships to the point of even decide to make up lies about me and ending potential relationships . They would bully and harass any guy I meet. Tell them lies about me to put them off.

I don't want them talking to him on the quiet until I got to know him for myself .

I need someone to legally intervene and stop this reoccurrence. I'm scared that my dad would interfere in any future potential relationships I have and my mum again even down to taking away my devices,locking me away or chucking me out with nothing to doing what my mum's dad did allegedly and phone someone up at there work to threaten them or physically arrive there or contact them ect to split me and anyone up.

They don't want me to date or have a family and told me this and discourage me. They'll do anything to stop it even before stopping me from accessing the kitchen to get food when out incase I get to a phone ect and prevented me from using a TV box to view TV.


It's on record the confiscation of my devices and what my dad did online and the police and relevant people and authorities all know and gave my family a warning.

I am of sound mind and had assessment and was only mildly depressed but I have full mental capacity Just want to make something clear though. I am grateful to now still have a roof over my head and food water and shelter and appreciate my family for looking after me growing up. They go way over the top and overreact about every little thing but I've tried to explain this to them before and say I feel like they don't consider my human rights and feelings and only want me to exist for them .

Also how I feel they don't want this for me because of my brother ect I do feel like my parents have been selfish

Normal healthy parents want there children to be happy and have loving caring relationships Mine don't It went on till may 2020 and imagine during lockdown adds on TV talk about connecting with others and I had no devices and was under surveillance and they monitored my every move ect. Yes, it's all embarrassing and crazy especially at my age but it all really happened. Wasn't until my dad got in trouble for whatever he did online and had access to my old ect that action was taken and he got a warning and I got my phone back If they prevent me from meeting people or potentially having a family and hold me back and ruin my relationships with interference and control

I don't want to sound like I'm bad mouthing my family as I appreciate all the good stuff they've done for me like putting a roof over my head and taking care of me growing up ect but they've told me behind closed doors they don't want me to see anyone and say things to put me off seeing people.



Theirs mother's with no arms or are disabled still in relationships and have kids, a conjoined twin marry. A trans man has a baby and a husband. Everyone deserves love and respect and to feel safe.

My parents,they would bully and harass any guy I meet. I need someone to legally intervene and stop this reoccurrence. I'm scared that my dad would interfere in any potential relationships I have and my mum again even down to taking away my devices,locking me away or chucking me out with nothing to doing what my mum's dad did allegedly and phone someone up at there work to threaten them or physically arrive there or contact them ect to split me and anyone up.

They don't want me to date or have a family and told me this. They'll do anything to stop it even before stopping me from accessing the kitchen to get food when out incase I get to a phone ect and locked me in and gave me bottle of water to have upstairs.

They go on about how it's best to be single and not have a family to rapes and murders ect They're selfish I want my own life and my legal rights protected always I'm finding it hard to meet people generally and also it doesn't help that my parents interfere too much and silenced me and took away my phone and devices and contacted a guy to stop him from pursuing me back in 2019 My dad was questioned by police for stuff he said online and whilst he took my devices

Not once police or social worker helped when I had no phone and everything taken from me and no one helps me prevent them from stopping them from interfering in any connections I make Any time I contacted for an advocate got no reply. Plus they don't help doing all that and then go on about rape and murder ect The barrier is family that will take away my phone or contact any potential person and interfere again They called me a little girl once and got worse with age I've spoken to people and when I've had my laptop emailed people ect and advocacy as I don't have any support outside the house. I know that people with down syndrome have gotten married and people more severe than me still have relationships. The social wont help if I'm on the streets or do anything because I'm not a single mum or foreigner so not a priority. They only care about money I don't have I'm just a number on a system not a human with rights thoughts or feelings

If anything happens again like it did 2019 I'll have only that minus a phone or laptop. Most people move out or they meet someone and date for a while before moving in together I was chucked out once for refusing to give up talking to someone I was out of the house no phone and no where to go and theirs no emergency housing. Unlike 2019 I'm not in that scenario now but when I start dating again I need help implemented and support and backup incase of a repeat that's what I'm trying to say Its dysfunctional and abnormal for adult children when parents are interfering in there relationships or controlling parents ect Theirs refugees and certain people are prioritise over born and bred Brits regardless of colour. I hope what I'm saying is relatable and I mean no disrespect but if I had down syndrome or looked physically or mentally disabled I get help. If I look ok I don't but despite any physical or neuro diversity it's still wrong .still should have the right to not be silenced freedom of speech right to date ect. It's on record the confiscation of my devices and what my dad did online and the police and relevant people and authorities all know.

I am of sound mind and had assessment and was only mildly depressed but I have full mental capacity Just want to make something clear though. I am grateful to now still have a roof over my head and food water and shelter and appreciate my family for looking after me growing up. They go way over the top and overreact about every little thing but I've tried to explain this to them before and say I feel like they don't consider my human rights and feelings and only want me to exist for them . Also how I feel they don't want this for me because of my brother ect I do feel like my parents have been selfish Normal healthy parents want there children to be happy and have loving caring relationships Mine don't It went on till may 2020 and imagine during lockdown adds on TV talk about connecting with others and I had no devices and was under surveillance and they monitored my every move ect. Yes it's all embarrassing and crazy especially at my age but it all really happened. Wasn't until my dad got in trouble for whatever he did online and had access to my old ect ect that action was taken and he got a warning and I got my phone back If they prevent me from meeting people or potentially having a family and hold me back and ruin my relationships with interference and control


I'm finding it hard to meet people generally and also it doesn't help that my parents interfere too much and silenced me and took away my phone and devices and contacted a guy to stop him from pursuing me back in 2019 My dad was questioned by police for stuff he said online and whilst he took my devices Not once police or social worker helped when I had no phone and everything taken from me and no one helps me prevent them from stopping them from interfering in any connections I make Any time I contacted for an advocate got no reply. Plus they don't help doing all that and then go on about rape and murder ect

The barrier is family that will take away my phone or contact any potential person and interfere again They called me a little girl once and got worse with age I've spoken to people and when I've had my laptop emailed people ect and advocacy as I don't have any support outside the house. I know that people with down syndrome have gotten married and people more severe than me still have relationships.

The social wont help if I'm on the streets or do anything because I'm not a single mum or foreigner so not a priority. They only care about money I don't have I'm just a number on a system not a human with rights thoughts or feelings.its a long process too. Theirs no emergency help either. No phone and purse I got driving license but they got the rest. If anything happens again like it did 2019 I'll have only that minus a phone or laptop. Most people move out or they meet someone and date for a while before moving in together I was chucked out once for refusing to give up talking to someone I was out of the house no phone and no where to go and theirs no emergency housing. Unlike 2019 I'm not in that scenario now but when I start dating again I need help implemented and support and backup incase of a repeat that's what I'm trying to say Its dysfunctional and abnormal for adult children when parents are interfering in there relationships or controlling parents ect theirs refugees and certain people are prioritise over born and bred Brits regardless of colour.

I hope what I'm saying is relatable and I mean no disrespect but if I had down syndrome or looked physically or mentally disabled I get help. If I look ok I don't but despite any physical or neuro diversity it's still wrong .still should have the right to not be silenced freedom of speech right to date ect. It's on record the confiscation of my devices and what my dad did online and the police and relevant people and authorities all know. I am of sound mind and had assessment and was only mildly depressed but I have full mental capacity Just want to make something clear though. I am grateful to now still have a roof over my head and food water and shelter and appreciate my family for looking after me growing up. They go way over the top and overreact about every little thing but I've tried to explain this to them before and say I feel like they don't consider my human rights and feelings and only want me to exist for them .

Also how I feel they don't want this for me because of my brother ect I do feel like my parents have been selfish Normal healthy parents want there children to be happy and have loving caring relationships Mine don't It went on till may 2020 and imagine during lockdown adds on TV talk about connecting with others and I had no devices and was under surveillance and they monitored my every move ect. Yes it's all embarrassing and crazy especially at my age but it all really happened. Wasn't until my dad got in trouble for whatever he did online and had access to my old ect that action was taken and he got a warning and I got my phone back If they prevent me from meeting people or potentially having a family and hold me back and ruin my relationships with interference and control

I've even had the mental health team call me in once just to say if you want to do this or that you'll need to contact this or email that knowing I was under surveillance and had no devices and even my mail and tv connected to the internet intercepted

If I could afford to live by myself which I can't
They'll still interfere or secretly say and do something

Or mum and dad will go on about there own parents or relationship and there own fertility. Which is irrelevant to my situation.

I'm worried they'll harass the guy or contact any guy or try and speak to him privately to stir up trouble and tell lies so that they will leave

They're happy for me to have nobody and nothing and will happily have me on the streets but will do things secretly to sabotage or cause trouble if I had a man in my life that would support me or offer me somewhere to live. They'll ensure I have no contact and nothing and the authorities will happily allow it
The police and social services

So my dad also was texting someone I knew when I was 16 via my phone to say stuff randomly too or my dad would be contacting people and putting them all off me and the last guy he lied and took away my devices and told him I'm having sex with others and he should move on is protection

Or my parents insisting I get someone in the past out of my system is protection. Please read from the beginning everything I've written theirs concern then theirs trouble causing and interfering and sabotage

If I could afford to live by myself which I can't
They'll still interfere or secretly say and do something
Plus it's a long process

Or mum and dad will go on about there family like parents or relationship and there own fertility. Which is irrelevant and weird

I'm worried they'll harass the guy or contact any guy or try and speak to him privately to stir up trouble and tell lies so that they will leave

They're happy for me to have nobody and nothing and will happily have me on the streets but will do things secretly to sabotage or cause trouble if I had a man in my life that would support me or offer me somewhere to live. They'll ensure I have no contact and nothing and the authorities will happily allow it
The police and social services.


What I wanted to say to my family

Dear parents

If I could afford to live by myself which I can't
You'll still interfere or secretly say and do something

If I could afford to live by myself which I can't
You'll still interfere or secretly say and do something

Or mum and dad will go on about your family like parents or relationship and fertility. Which is irrelevant

You would harass the guy or contact any guy or try and speak to him privately to stir up trouble and tell lies so that they will leave me

You're happy for me to have nobody and nothing and will happily have me on the streets but will do things secretly to sabotage or cause trouble if I had a man in my life that would support me or even offer me somewhere to live. You'll ensure I have no contact and nothing and no one and don't care any of you how you're treating me or how I feel.

I'll happily and without regret or remorse
Cut all ties with you all then deal with such dysfunction and toxicity if I met the right man I'll choose him and our future and have nothing to do with any of you or any trouble or ultimatum again.
I wouldn't need to think twice.

From your one and only daughter.

tl;dr.

Summarize, please?

I read the whole thing. I'm sorry this is happening.

This is the Haven so not my business to give advice or suggestions. I just want to say that as an Aspie you belong here on wrongplanet.