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28 Jan 2025, 2:21 pm

I feel uncomfortable around people and dont feel close to anyone. I hate my family too, idk if thats normal. How am I gonna reach my goals in this situation? My social skills did not improve much. Pretty much everything involves people. Will I ever be able to recover and get my life on track?



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29 Jan 2025, 2:11 am

Is there anything in particular that you enjoy doing


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30 Jan 2025, 5:21 pm

babybird wrote:
Is there anything in particular that you enjoy doing


I like eating food I love, coding, listening to music, buying things I like, which I cant because I have a very little network to make money properly, and some other stuff. But having little social life and skills worries me, I'm afraid to stay the same at 30, 35, 40 and so.



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01 Feb 2025, 1:34 pm

Yeah I know what you mean there

It's really scary when you think of your life in 10 years time and it's the exact same as it is now.

I don't know if it's an autistic thing as such because people in general do seem to get stuck in situations that they feel powerless to get out of

I can quite happily live without other people in my real life because I've been hurt so much in my life that I just feel better in my own company

I hope you can find some kind of way through this


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