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Have you ever felt this way
yes 88%  88%  [ 14 ]
no 6%  6%  [ 1 ]
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Eric_C
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11 Sep 2007, 8:53 pm

I found something out about myself that I can finally discrible in worlds.

Do you ever feel Insecure? Like when you get lonely and there is no one to relate to, do you ever start freaking out and distrusting everyone? And the feeling that they want to change you and point on you alot but it reality they are trying to understand and help out your anxiety?

You try to ask for help, but you find yourself blurring out words of what your feeling and not making clear sentances or questions. No one understands you.

You start blamming yourself? You go into an outburst until you ware yourself out or pass out? Then your tired and sad, scared and confused.

Do you know what I'm talking about?

_Eric ;)


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11 Sep 2007, 8:55 pm

It is hard to describe in words but you did a good job.
Can totally relate.
Still don't have the solution, though.



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11 Sep 2007, 9:03 pm

I pretty much feel this way 24/7.



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11 Sep 2007, 11:43 pm

username88 wrote:
I pretty much feel this way 24/7.


Me too. :(



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12 Sep 2007, 12:53 am

Damn. You caught me. :o That's pretty much the whole theme of my WP posts.


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12 Sep 2007, 1:14 pm

Yes its like a painful kind of loneliness that does not have a remedy because for me being with others brings anxiety not a sense of belonging or warmth or companionship.



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12 Sep 2007, 5:37 pm

Eric_C wrote:
I found something out about myself that I can finally discrible in worlds.

Do you ever feel Insecure? Like when you get lonely and there is no one to relate to, do you ever start freaking out and distrusting everyone? And the feeling that they want to change you and point on you alot but it reality they are trying to understand and help out your anxiety?

You try to ask for help, but you find yourself blurring out words of what your feeling and not making clear sentances or questions. No one understands you.

You start blamming yourself? You go into an outburst until you ware yourself out or pass out? Then your tired and sad, scared and confused.

Do you know what I'm talking about?

_Eric ;)


Yes, I know what you mean, I can relate to a lot of what's been said.

I too find it hard to describe - I think that is a general aspie trait though, that is finding it hard to understand and convey your emotions.



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13 Sep 2007, 2:45 pm

I also noticed something else.

When I can't talk to someone about my interests and such, I go into a depression sort of thing.


And if I say something to my parents, discribling the best of my abillity, the aspie ways of thinking.

They are quiet, they don't know what to day. I feel down and don't know what to think of myself.


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