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devster21
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17 Sep 2007, 5:08 pm

I don't feel like posting in here but if someone would be willing to give me advice. preferably a woman i'd appreciate it. Send me a pm if you can help.


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20 Sep 2007, 5:23 pm

Sorry if I'm a guy, but since no one else posted on here, I can help you out.
What's your troubles?

If you like, email me at [email protected] with subject: Problem,
I can help you out.

_Eric ;)


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28 Sep 2007, 6:37 pm

It's quite common for ASpie guys to have problems dating. BUT ASpie girls have the same problems. Believe it or not, the face blindness, the lack of interest in NT things, the meltdowns, we share so many of the same problems ....


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03 Oct 2007, 2:43 pm

I can probably tell you how you know if you found the right one.

Think of qualities that you want in the girl of your dreams. Keep thinking about it every chance you could. Keep developing it. Draw out what you consider beauty. Think of fantasies of you and your dream girl. After that, think of places of your dream girl would hang out in. Then go to the place and see if you can find one there.
Get into writting fitional stories and I think this would help out with some of the stress of lonelyness.

Don't stop thinking about this, take your time developing this. Pray to your religiand. Relax and think about her. If it helps, hug some pillows at night. That helped for me.

And someday it's going to come at you. When you least expect it. So I guess what I'm trying to say is, Be prepaired for the invation. Learn as much things about woman and dating, etc. and you can.

I feel that it'll make you more attractive to them. ;)


Good Luck and God bless. ;)


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