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TheSoullessWhisper
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14 Sep 2007, 9:18 pm

I can see that no one likes who I am. Ill change <3



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14 Sep 2007, 9:24 pm

Into what? A fish? Be more specific..
If your planning on magically turning into an NT or something its not going to happen. Forcing yourself to try to be someone your not is one of the worst things you can do in life.



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14 Sep 2007, 9:24 pm

TheSoullessWhisper wrote:
I can see that no one likes who I am. Ill change <3


You shouldn't have to change for anyone. If people don't like the real you, that's their problem.

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14 Sep 2007, 9:25 pm

username88 wrote:
Into what? A fish? Be more specific..
If your planning on magically turning into an NT or something its not going to happen. Forcing yourself to try to be someone your not is one of the worst things you can do in life.


but no one like ME



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14 Sep 2007, 9:26 pm

Yeah, and plus I didnt find anyone who appreciated who I was until I found this board, so it can happen for you too. Although still not too many people do but I more than likely dislike them just as much or more so. Im really greatful for how good Anas been to me. :D



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14 Sep 2007, 9:27 pm

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You shouldn't have to change for anyone. If people don't like the real you, that's their problem.


Bingo. If your friends can't accept you for how you are...you don't need to change yourself...you need to change your friends.


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14 Sep 2007, 10:40 pm

Try focusing on things that will make you a healthier and happier person without worrying what anyone else's opinion is. Valuing and taking good care of yourself will attract good people.



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14 Sep 2007, 10:44 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
TheSoullessWhisper wrote:
I can see that no one likes who I am. Ill change <3


You shouldn't have to change for anyone. If people don't like the real you, that's their problem.

Tim

Right. Changing because you want to, for you, is fine. Changing yourself to live up to someone else's expectations or demands, that's not worth it. If you only want the change because it will make someone else happy, then you're just forcing yourself to be something or someone you aren't.



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15 Sep 2007, 6:08 am

I was so sure that ppl hated me on here when I started out. Now I am just suspicious of it.


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15 Sep 2007, 8:31 am

LadyMacbeth wrote:
I was so sure that ppl hated me on here when I started out. Now I am just suspicious of it.


I like you :P