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Kliffhanger
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02 Nov 2007, 6:27 pm

I'm lonely and depressed enough in general. In every weekend it just gets worse. I know that most of my friends are out having a good time, while I'm locked into my room, hatin the outside world and not getting any sleep for almost whole night. I know that they are out there just to get themshelves drunk as a boot, but I've felt that I'd rather be there with them and forget everythig, just for one evening... But I can't. I just can't.
"Day-off sociality" of all kind seems impossible, I don't feel that I could be real friends with anyone.



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02 Nov 2007, 9:04 pm

You can PM me on the weekends. :D Or anytime at all. And talk all you want, as often and for as long as you want. :)



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02 Nov 2007, 11:19 pm

Your weekends sound just like mine, but I don't get depressed about it, cause the weekends are just like every other day for me, but with different shows on TV. I guess solitude just doesn't bother me like it does for others.



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03 Nov 2007, 4:58 am

U could jump on to WP and talk to peoples here.
I am just thinking though, with the talk of getting drunk...why is it that some peeps feel that an essential part of having a good time is getting completely drunk?



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03 Nov 2007, 7:23 am

I suppose that a lot of the time drinking is just... fun. Or that people do it to forget the sorry lives they lead.



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20 Dec 2007, 12:16 am

Ana54 wrote:
You can PM me on the weekends. :D Or anytime at all. And talk all you want, as often and for as long as you want. :)



What is PM?

I spend a lot of time in my room during the weekends too. Try to find something you enjoy doing to take your mind off of it. You can always go drinking alone.



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20 Dec 2007, 7:56 am

sort30030 wrote:
What is PM?


Private message.



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22 Dec 2007, 11:50 am

I hate weekends too. i only have a couple of friends and when they make other plans i'm stuck by myself. which is fine for a while because i need to stare at the walls or sit and knit for a couple of hours to let my nervous system calm down after working all week. i've been at my job for about 3 mos and its harder than i expected, more hours, more social interaction and crazy work environments. plus i often have to do work on weekends. i feel pretty lonely a lot. plus my dog died a couple of weeks ago so the apartment feels pretty empty. i'm trying not to dwell on the negative and not zone out in front of the tv all weekend, but its such an easy trap to fall into. the food network can be such a drug for me



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22 Dec 2007, 5:04 pm

yeah weekends suck. when u have noone around because ur different. it just gets u down and then it seems like everybody hates you and that just sucks. its like sinkin in a whirlpool and u fight so hard to get out and then people think ur crazy cuz u never have social interactions



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24 Dec 2007, 6:44 pm

Get a weekend job. It worked wonders for me years ago when I was lonely and bored...


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24 Dec 2007, 7:56 pm

shdw666 wrote:
yeah weekends suck. when u have noone around because ur different. it just gets u down and then it seems like everybody hates you and that just sucks. its like sinkin in a whirlpool and u fight so hard to get out and then people think ur crazy cuz u never have social interactions


I flat out hate the weekends myself because,without money(at least until my SSI gets approved) or transportation there's flat out nothing to do around here....that's when my depression seems to really be at it's worst.