Youngest child is treated more like an adult than I am.

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I'm still complianing about the whipping. Thats some shit- mom never remembers to spank my younger sister whose 13, and she does the most dirt- yet she wants to rememver to spank the adult. What a sh***y ass family, whose DYSFUNCTIONAL as hell. my sister was promised a punishment for blatantly lying to mom, yet she can take away my SENIOR PROM for saying little things she doesn't like. Furthermore, my sister gets away with everything.

My sister gets annoyed at me and tells me to shut up complaining. She says it annoys her to hear me repeat the same thing time and again. I told her to just deal with it because she has everything her way nonetheless, and the least she can do is deal with it. I'm gonna continue harrassing her because I'm jealous that she gets more adult treatment than me

Please do not take this the wrong way, however harrassing your little sister is not going to make things better for you. Actually, it will probably make it worse. I found that I started getting treated more like an adult when I changed how I treated people to my "logic" way. Anything that I would try to argue, I would try and make sure that I see as many sides of the situation as possible so that I could have a counter argument for anything that they said. People started feeling stupid when arguing against me, especially in public. My statements were given a lot more weight after that point and it has gotten to the point where my Mom will ask me for opinions on important topics. This of course will not work for everyone, and some people will never be fair or look at things logically. However making people look/feel stupid in front of others (especially when they are acting so.... and do so repeatedly) always makes me feel as if I win an arguement, even when there is no decided winner.

PS. It is also a lot harder to punish someone who seems to have a clear head and is speaking in a calm, even-toned voice. Saved me from a lot of trouble in school, I try not to show my anger and try to use it constuctively... can really piss people off too.

But seriously on the taking it out on your sister. Nothing good can possibly come from it. Either way, I wish you luck.

Wow, not many kids over 12 get spanked. They are a little old for that. Sounds like the lot of you are aspies. Aspies don't get along with each other that well. You should try to reason with your mom about the senior prom. That's a very important thing for you to attend.

As did I.

At 14.5, I finally grabbed my mother's wrist when she was trying to get me into position. She said she was going to get my father, and that after they duly "chastised" me I'd fast until things became clear and the Holy Spirit would work in me. So she drove off to get him.

I'd fasted before, of my own accord, basically as competition with my father, and I didn't care to repeat that. By the time they returned, I wasn't around. When I came back, four days later, I overheard my father on the phone telling someone how disappointed he was that my spirit wasn't broken. They'd hoped I'd go through awful things that made me grateful to submit to them. Yeah, whatever. They're still bitter about how much I hurt them by taking off.

Anyway, what Kauf039 says is solid. But if you're physically about the size of your parents by now, resisting might be an option. Just be very careful to not initiate any violence; that could turn on you quickly.

If you're 18 and they're hitting you, couldn't you threaten to call the police? In America, that would be regarded as assault. Heck, here, even tossing your drink in someone's face is considered assault.

Find a place to stash your stuff and move out. Even a shelter is probably better than where you are because you probably won't get that emotional abuse.