theft sucks

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Hello
recently my house was burglarized. It is shocking and scary, to say the least. We had computers, jewelry, and fire arms taken.
and some damaged property.
I am good when i am with my boyfriend, but when i am alone i feel nervous and scared.
My sister has called me making judgmental statements about the fact firearms have been lost. Really laying on the guilt and anger.
we have a safe. The ones that were taken either did not fit, or were "house" guns used for protection. (My boyfriend has been shot before, so we take self preservation a little seriously.)
I don't like being made to feel guilty. Maybe it's my limited ability to understand social behaviors, but shouldn't family be sympathetic, or at least understanding?
I really don't what "Oh so sorry's" either. I just want to do what needs to be done and move on with my life.
I guess I'm really upset because it never feels like My sisters, or well most of my family, is ever on my side. I always feel like a black sheep. Not even a black sheep, a goat. I don't belong to the club.
anyone else, alone in the herd?

Onibunny, I can't stand thieves or criminals in general. I suggest you tell your sister to piss up a rope. Being a victim of a crime doesn't give her the right to harass you. I am fortunate in that none of my family would pull that on me. I hope you get your property back and the scum goes to jail. If anyone stole my collection I would still be mad when they got out of jail.