I don't want to lose my best friend.

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I know she is just an online friend but for me she was like a true sister the little sister that I never had. I treated her as such and she did the same. We laughed together we cried together and she always helped me through my tough situations. She is also an Aspie and had other disabilities as well. Her name is Kylie and she wants herself to die. She wants to commit suicide and I can't do anything to stop her because if I talk to her she just ignores me. I can't lose her because she was always there for me.

Whenever I was upset due to meltdowns or something that happened I would appear offline over MSN and only talk to her. She always knew the right thing to say and she always cared for me like a real sister and she isnt like any of my other friends.

Right now I feel like there is a huge weight in my chest causing it to feel hurtful and I feel sick like I want to throw up...I've been in tears and I just don't want her to die. ;;

I think the very fact that you try to talk to her is helpful, because that way she knows you care about her.
I haven't any real advice to offer except don't let her forget she's important to you.
I hope things work out.

Talk to her about it. What would happen. The world doesn't end at death. What would those close to her think.

I met another person in a nightclub in the same dilemma, and I urged him to get help - to see someone, and call helpline. I think I might have saved his life.

If your friend gets that bad again, BEG her to call helpline or to see someone about it. If she won't, ask her to do it for you as a favour. If you really think she might do it, maybe call a helpline yourself and see if you can get any advice as to how to prevent her from doing it.

lose her epicly by doing something really mean
it'll be epic

never get too close to anyone online whether they are who they say they are or not,
i understand you are worried but it would be too hard to worry about someone you haven't even met for REAL,
ive noticed women would more commonly say out loud that they are contemplating suicide before a guy would,
she is probably just in a bad mood or some sh*t and is getting a bit too "dramatic", tell her

"you would help her if you could, but you really don't know how to help"

if she asks for any more of your "involvment", tell her you are not a professional and are not comfortable with it

I feel your pain things like this sucks but i will say talk to her probably the best way even if she ignore you then just keep telling her that there are other ways out of the sadness