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25 Nov 2008, 5:46 am

The only reason my life is online is because most of the people I talk to live their lives online.


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25 Nov 2008, 9:04 am

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What'cha mean your best years? Having not lived any future years yet, how are you sure about that?
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Not entirely sure what you're getting at... Worst case, best is still a comparative term. By saying that your best years have already been lived, it implies a knowledge that your life will never be as good as it was at some point in the past.
i supose you make good points, i just think the past is always better for some reason because i really dont know what tomorrow will bringggg

i feel an emo song comming up. :x

but in all serioseness im am just unprepaired for life, and need to keep in mind that it could always be worse so why cry? exactley. *gets dramatic*


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08 Dec 2008, 12:09 pm

richardbenson wrote:
i feel an emo song comming up. :x



Oh :o I hope it's evanescence I love there music :D .

No I'm just kiding , just trying to cheer you up.



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08 Dec 2008, 1:29 pm

It is a wonderful cyber life topic

I have always preferred print to living, breathing people.

The dynamics of active humanity is just too confusing for me. I can get my head around print a lot more easily.


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08 Dec 2008, 1:40 pm

I live most my life on the internet, but that's because it tends to shun me less than real life.


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08 Dec 2008, 2:14 pm

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and i dont know how to get off! obviously i can rationalize steps and such but i never get started once i wake up in the morning and see my computer just sitting there. calling me, get on me please! i feel so stuck in the past and unable to move on or try to salvage whatever remaining oxygen i have left to breath because i waste ALL mytime online.

Maybe there is a demon in your computer.

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08 Dec 2008, 2:29 pm

I can't live without the internet. I'd die without it. Yes, I have Internet Addiction Disorder. I spend 24 hours a day on the Internet. Sleep? What's that again? I just have to know what is going on in the world. I spend more time on the internet than watching TV. Of course the TV shows are on the internet now anyways. Everything is on the internet.



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08 Dec 2008, 3:07 pm

Richard, why don't you devote your life to trying to meet your online friends? :) Then your life on the internet will not have been a waste, and even if you don't met them it still won't have been a waste because friendships exist online too. Don't bother yourself thinking it isn't real. It's just as real as "real life" relationships, just different.



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08 Dec 2008, 11:59 pm

richardbenson wrote:
*gets dramatic*


richardbenson, what is your avatar ?
thank you,

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09 Dec 2008, 12:07 am

I'm just a few years younger than you, SB, and the best years of my life ... how to measure them? Health? Safety? Security? Employment? Friends? Personal growth? I can't really remember a time when all of these factors were present at once.

Perhaps a person's "Best Years" are what they make of them. Childhood, college, parenthood, military life ... each had its own best features.

As for Internet life, it's the only venue where I can express myself honestly and not (usually) have to be deceitful for the sake of others. I can speak my mind, and as long as I stick to the facts and refrain from attacking anyone, everything is okay.

I could never get away with such honesty in real life.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:19 am

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well, richardbenson, it is certainly better than living your life on the streets!

one who knows, :wink:

Merle


No sh1t, eh? :D

Im the same way too! Ever since I graduated college in 2003 Ive maintained a Very ACTIVE, chronic presence online. I think that the internets was invented by folks like us for folks like us, and boy is FUN! :mrgreen:
BTW Merle, had I had to live any portion of my life on the streets, I have NO DOUBT that I would end up in jail pretty quick.



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09 Dec 2008, 9:43 am

Haliphron wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
well, richardbenson, it is certainly better than living your life on the streets!

one who knows, :wink:

Merle


No sh**, eh? :D

Im the same way too! Ever since I graduated college in 2003 Ive maintained a Very ACTIVE, chronic presence online. I think that the internets was invented by folks like us for folks like us, and boy is FUN! :mrgreen:
BTW Merle, had I had to live any portion of my life on the streets, I have NO DOUBT that I would end up in jail pretty quick.


lucky you! Jail (three hots and a cot) was sometimes preferable to sleeping on cardboard, or on the beach, or under upturned row boats by the lakes, on rooftops or . . .

(and please, don't evade the forbidden word censor. When you are chatting to me, I can't ignore it and not tell you to not do it, Haliphron.)

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09 Dec 2008, 9:49 am

One...tiny...little thing i could add:

(i assume you're a guy right ?)

Do some fitness. just get some weights.. and lift them, do push ups & sit ups.

keep you offline atleast 15 min a day ;) and it's "usefull" since your body improves. Also, it's a repetitive thing so you can make it fit into your life as a ritual.

But i'm kinda in the same situation here..

"nothing going on...so lets turn on the PC"

Ow and another important thing: You can try to do other stuff, but DON'T see internet as a "sin". This will break your self image...



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09 Dec 2008, 10:45 pm

I am the same way. I think I have spent the majority of my time online, from the end of high school, up until now. I would come home, and go straight to my room and hop on the 'net and stay there, until it was time to eat. I even stopped visiting with my family, because I thought being online was more important. I'm slowly starting to change this around though.

I don't see anything wrong with getting on the 'net, but I do think it's a bad idea to be on here all day, everyday. Talk about life passing you by. I'm also getting tired of people telling me I need to "get out more".
One reason I did this though , was because I didn't really have a lot of people to do things with, and you can only do so much by yourself. Things are starting to change for the better I think.



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11 Dec 2008, 9:54 pm

yeah I arguably spend TOO much time on the 'net.....


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11 Dec 2008, 11:09 pm

I've been spending more time on here lately because my work days had been cut, so I am home all the time now and I am bored, so I lurk here and click around and have been making more posts.


But I go and take a walk to get some exercise and I am reading a story online. I really need to go out and find other things to do so I am not in my apartment all the time.