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nightbender
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13 Dec 2008, 11:15 pm

My grandfather is dying and it doenst register. im so emotionally damaged and disconted i dont notice. this awful, psychiatry stole from me being with it for my other grandparents funerals now its stolen my others. what in heavens name did i do to deserve this giant pile.



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13 Dec 2008, 11:38 pm

Maybe you're already in a depressed mood, and can't become any more depressed.



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13 Dec 2008, 11:39 pm

Moop wrote:
Maybe you're already in a depressed mood, and can't become any more depressed.

i have anhedonia



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13 Dec 2008, 11:42 pm

nightbender wrote:
Moop wrote:
Maybe you're already in a depressed mood, and can't become any more depressed.

i have anhedonia

That explains it. I couldn't grieve my dogs death when I was in that situation.



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14 Dec 2008, 12:36 am

It sounds like you want to grieve Nightbender, maybe you will be able too in time. I am sorry for your loss.



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14 Dec 2008, 3:30 am

i offer you my condolences.



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14 Dec 2008, 10:42 am

I wasn't upset when my grandmother died or when my grandfather died.



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14 Dec 2008, 11:28 am

when my great nan passed i felt numb but didn't really register it, when it came to leaving the wake i started crying and i couldn't stop.

some people say crying helps but it's just crying to me, if you want to grieve but can't try drinking some alcohol (being careful not to drink too much). it tends to bring emotions to the surface and might help you understand yourself better.


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