I know how you feel. It's NTs. I'm going to call them NTs because they're socommon that that's probably typical for humans.
You need THIS community. An Aspie community that understands your kind of pain.
I hate people who punish others for feeling bad, or think that they're making them better by insulting them or making them feel worse first. I hate the people who either think being cruel to an unhappy person is for the unhappy person's own good (tough love), and I also hate the people that say that they're trying to help you but then tell you how annoying you are and how you have to stop, making it clear to you that it's themselves they care about and are trying to help, not you.