can someone help me with this?

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people constantly call me ugly and im losing friends left and right..
my father says he feels sorry for anyone who ever loves me and my mother said i dont deserve friends... why do such things happen to me?

Don't give up hope.

i think its too late to say that

people who say those sorts of things are generally trying to deal with their own issues, n-kuroi, although i'm not intending to put your parents down.

you are a person in your own right. what your parents say to you is often in their "job description" if they are the sort of people who need to put you down to make themselves feel better.

how old are you? that can make a difference - many, many people go through phases of change, when they outgrow their old friends.

hang on in there, hon - there are plenty of people on here who want to listen and to help, if possible.

Vivi

i dont think that is why they did it.. and im still young

Why do you think they did it?

Sounds as if your parents are wallowing in self-pity over your diagnosis, or something else, and taking it out on you. Rather than dealing with it. Am I wrong?

I'm sorry... but are you telling us everything?.. i can't believe a mother or a father saying that?.. and for you to be so OK with it being read in here and looking for answers?...

again i am sorry..