SICK OF DRAMA && FAKES

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Seems to me since idk what to say or do in most social situations, it causes drama.

To make this shorttt, my BF's friend (sorta my friend but not a lot) was having a party Sunday. I was shy to go because my BF wasn't going. Den my closer friend who I met from my BF said I'd be fine and that they all want me their. I said, "Alright, I'll go if I can get all my chores done" I didn't feel so well after an hour after that, so I fell asleep.

I woke up at 4 pm (time dee party started) and I told my friend "I didn't get anything done, I'm sorry I can't go" and I text him agian saying "Tell Ash I can't go now". He didn't I guess or didn't get my text. I was afraid to tell her I wasn't going because she was all moody because this girl she liked was being a rude to her.

Next day, noting.

Today, I get a call on my way home from my senior project mentoring and she asked if we were still talking and I told her we were. Then she asks me why I wasn't talking to her and I told her I wasn't feeling well and that I was going to go at one point but couldn't. Then she says "Oh okaaaaay" in a angry tone. Then she tells me the girl who I spoke of perviously, was not speaking to her agian. I of course asked, "Why?" and she tells me in this fast speaking but annoied tone, "I'm not going to tell you because you'll tell your BF cuz you tell him everything and I don't want him to tell anyone." I just say, "Uhhh, ok?" Next, she asks me if I talked to the girl at all today in school, I tell her this morning my BF said she took one look at me in the hall and walked dee oppoiste way. So my friend says to me "Well, she may be avoiding you because of me". Finally she says even angier, "Well, I'm gonna go so ttyl, bye"

Basically, my friend POED at me for nawt talking to her at all Sunday (I don't blame her for that).
Dee girl she liked, FAAAAAKE AND RUUUUDUE. Fake because she used to HATE me and she randomly talked to me agian because I'm her crushes close friend. So, she didn't give a s**t about me, just her crush. Rude because she lead my friend to believe they had a future together then just tells her they are nothing (not friends, lovers, or enimies).


Idk if she'll ever talk to me or forgive me =(. HADDDD to let it out.

I'm sorry you're in so much drama. I find that stuff very taxing.

If the fake was only being nice to you when she had a use for you (hated you til she wanted to get an "in" with your friend) she's no loss.

I'm assuming the close friend that the fake has a crush on is the one you didn't talk to on Sunday. Was that the party, that you didn't tell HER you weren't going? Was the party for her? I'm kind of lost.

Anyway, I hope this all works out for you and nobody you care about stays mad at you. As for the fake, since you know that's what she is I hope you don't ever care if she's mad or not cuz she'll probably just try to use you some more in the future.

I can relate....probably why I have few friends anymore.

This seem to feel typical when I was especially around girls....still is to a certain degree.

Don't let her get to you, yes people love to create drama for their sorry ass problems. Problem is, I've never been good at handling drama mostly likely due to my ASD related issues. I had to split from some of those type of people coz it took a huge toll on me psychologically. Talk about a major meltdown!

Maybe something to think about.

It's difficult to deal with dramatic angry people, but I guess she's probably just upset and doesn't know how else to respond. She doesn't know how to handle it when she feels rejected and sad, and probably is hypersensitive to any kind of rejection right now. (Because you didn't call her, she thought you didn't like her anymore). It doesn't mean she has a right to be a b***h to you, but sometimes that's all people know how to do. I know I've been horrible to people, and didn't realize until later that what I did wasn't okay. I was too upset to realize it at the time.

I didn't quite follow that whole story, but I certainly get what you mean about people creating drama over small things. It can be very annoying!

All of you gave very amazing replies.

Dee party was not for HER, it was for my BF's friend, Jesse. She was invited to Jesse's party.

I didn't even get much of a chance to aplogize to her since after I explained myself she just bitcheddddddd about dee girl she liked and my BF for dee rest of dee conversation.

She wrote a blog complaining about me, dee girl she likes, her best friend, and someone idk on Myspace (funny how I left Myspace so I'll be off dee computer drama but NOOOOPE).

At least it makes life interesting.