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23 Mar 2009, 11:40 pm

Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? Thanks.



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23 Mar 2009, 11:43 pm

What for?


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23 Mar 2009, 11:50 pm

So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.



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23 Mar 2009, 11:50 pm

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? Thanks.


I can try and teach you how to like life and enjoy yourself
how bout it?



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24 Mar 2009, 12:02 am

> I can try and teach you how to like life and enjoy yourself
how bout it?

I'm listening.



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24 Mar 2009, 12:07 am

PM me-it needs a more personal setting



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24 Mar 2009, 12:30 am

Kilroy wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? Thanks.


I can try and teach you how to like life and enjoy yourself
how bout it?


Kilroy, you're a very nice guy :)


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24 Mar 2009, 12:49 am

I have my moments
Fickle Pickle is a neat person and she deserves to be happy
there is ways for everyone to be happy and its easier to reach then we think



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24 Mar 2009, 12:51 am

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? Thanks.


easy. desensitize.

go to various news-sites, and look up the goryest s**t you can find. then, find something humorous about it, and crack jokes about it. practice makes expert. good luck!


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24 Mar 2009, 1:02 am

ZEGH8578 wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? Thanks.


easy. desensitize.

go to various news-sites, and look up the goryest sh** you can find. then, find something humorous about it, and crack jokes about it. practice makes expert. good luck!

nice advise ass :roll:



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24 Mar 2009, 1:19 am

Kilroy wrote:
ZEGH8578 wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? Thanks.


easy. desensitize.

go to various news-sites, and look up the goryest sh** you can find. then, find something humorous about it, and crack jokes about it. practice makes expert. good luck!

nice advise ass :roll:


I actually liked this, but that's only the result. And how can I constantly be exposed and find it every second?

What could be so funny about it?

But I am a sex addict, so I can't feel worthwhile. :(



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24 Mar 2009, 1:42 am

thats bull s**t
you can feel worthwhile with anything
seriously!!



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24 Mar 2009, 2:46 am

Well, as a complete cynic, i have to inform you that like everything else, being bitter is not all it's cracked up to be.

Also, i have to guess that to be a sex addict, you actually have to have HAD sex at least once in the first place. So take heart, you're already seen more of life than i ever will.

Trust me, you don't WANT to end up bitter like i am. It sucks.



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24 Mar 2009, 3:35 am

aka010101 wrote:
Well, as a complete cynic, i have to inform you that like everything else, being bitter is not all it's cracked up to be.

Also, i have to guess that to be a sex addict, you actually have to have HAD sex at least once in the first place. So take heart, you're already seen more of life than i ever will.

Trust me, you don't WANT to end up bitter like i am. It sucks.


It can't suck as much as the way I am, so I am willing to take the chance.



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24 Mar 2009, 9:15 am

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.


But that is letting your emotions go out sideways.


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24 Mar 2009, 11:38 am

pff, i know i was a bit abrupt in my advice there, but the bottom line is the same

i can fully understand the wish to _care less_ if OP's having trouble coping w too much emotions.
the lesson needed is: theres ALWAYS horrible s**t going on, constantly, constantly, constantly, constantly. right now, someone's getting their kidneys poked out w a glowing stick, simply for extraction of information.

people are entitled to be all emotional, and cry over petty things that concern them, but if OP has a genuine wish, and is sick of feeling everything, then that remains my advice: desensitize. stop caring. not entirely.

i still cry some to "extreme makeover, home edition" :'''I

wouldnt hurt to keep a throat-lump to crying war-victims either. i get a bit soft when i see those :(


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