Lesson in not caring

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This is my follow up thread to Bitterness Lesson. As you can see to achieve what I wished to in the previous thread requires not caring, about anything, about what people think and I have no idea how or what sort of things should go on in my head as I'm not caring about others' expectations or opinions.


(But I may not be able to not care what people think of me as I may have some sort of sex addiction which requires me not to feel worthy and see myself as only a toy for pleasure. Which also makes me addicted to such images, but I'm not entirely sure that is the case.)

Stop caring. You might as well start with desensitising yourself through media, start off with some extreme images, move onto emotionally moving cinema, notice how little you can care when you don't put your mind to it. Then maybe some real life scenarios, walk around town, notice how you really don't care about charities, those worse off than yourself etc. Then come to the realisation that you are the only thing that matters in this world to you and you've left mankind behind.

Why you would want to do this is beyond me. And you're addicted to porn because it's addictive, not some other reason.

I guess Fickle Pickle doesn't know how to control his emotions and wants to get rid of them because they cause more confusion to his mind then clearance. But getting rid of what makes you as a person will hugely damage you in the future.

Caring is what makes you golden. When you get older you will learn how to live with a demanding brain that pushes you to notice.
You change constantly as a persom, tha fact that we stagnate and chose to be the one we "are" is because we refuse further shaping of the mind and rely on our gathered skills so far and live the rest of our lives chasing fake satisfactions to fill our lives with happiness.

But I live with non-carers. And I doubt I would be moving away from them soon.

... it's no use.

Rightly said.
It's probably just better to grow a thicker skin, but not lose your emotions.

I think 'Remember that you're unique' might be better advice than 'Stop caring.'

And how exactly should I "grow a thicker skin"???

why bother caring?
there was an infinitude of time before my existance.
in all that time i did not care.
the universe evolved to be the way it was on the day i was born with no input from me.
i never cared for ever before i was born, and the universe never suffered any alteration because of it.

But how do I stop caring about people's opinions? I can't do it manually, so I have to drug myself.

i can not care about peoples opinions because their opinions are locked inside their heads. they have thick boned skulls and the electromagnetic influence of their opiinions are feeble and they do not influence any external reality.


why do you care about opinions? maybe it is because you rely on them to define yourself if you do not trust your own opinion.

no opinion is the correct one except my opinion (in my opinion).

peoples brains are just masses of organic matter contained within their skull, and whatever they dream up can not deter me from how i want to be.

i will be how i want to be at all times of my existence.

Probably because I'm jealous I don't have my own to counter theirs. I'm probably not even Aspie, I'm probably an Autie. I also have Schitzophrenic and Histrionic tendancies and think if I just took some painkillers, it would just go away.

painkillers wouldn't make everything go away. well, it would for a little bit then things would come back again.

a major boost in self esteem is needed here. not an easy task.

That comes with experiences. I have no life whatsoever, so I doubt it will happen.