SolaCatella wrote:
I don't like people-watching, but I love reading about social dynamics, especially about how evolutionary history has affected them. Mind you, I'm terrible at reading them and understanding them all the time IRL, but I do like learning calm, logical reasons why people tend to structure themselves in particular ways.
I watch people and crowds (preferably from inside the action, like at a party -- that way it's not as intrusive) so that I can apply what I learn about social dynamics, particularly body language and expression. I don't really care about the content and I change focus frequently enough to avoid prying or to avoid personal kinda stuff. It's more detached and "scientific" in nature, like listening to a conversation in Spanish to teach yourself Spanish
In the rare event someone catches me, I smile gently maintaining eye contact for a second before focusing unhurried on something else -- people then shrug it off and don't feel uncomfortable when you do this (It's kinda like saying, "Oops, I'm sorry." except that it says so much more). It's one of the first things I read about and it's generally true. People only find it bothersome if you look away quickly when caught, as if you are doing something wrong. It goes to show you how something can not be taken as offensive if you do it the right way.