tinky wrote:
i have my ups and downs with it. people don't respond a lot when i comment on their wall but my sister said that people who've had a facebook for a while may not get on as much or feel obligated to respond to every comment. it still annoys me at times though.
i made a thread about my new facebook somewhere around here. i really try to respond people all the time.
Pm me - we can be facebook pals.
That is me, too. I sometimes write the same things that others and someone else will get a lot of responses and I will get none.
It seems like people comment more if you say something basic like "Mmmm making some cookies..." then that person gets a lot of "Like". I don't post that way.Really the people who seem to respond are people I hardly even on forums.
I have many "friends" on it just because most are forum friends LOL (272 friends) Most are from two other forums. My husband asked, "Do you even know 1/4th of those people in person?" I really don't. I guess I just became a happy "friend accept" clicker when people posted facebook threads (ADHD happy clicker person).
LOOK AT THIS. This is the best ever.http://gadgets.boingboing.net/2009/08/2 ... am-of.htmlhttp://www.joereifer.com/words/?p=1702Do you see narcissism?? That pretty much sums up facebook! Completely.
ADHD and Twitter LOL. I have never done twitter for that reason. I am already ADHD, I don't something else to distract me. Life is hard enough. I don't even get the whole tweet thing and I don't even want to learn.
Alana, I like facebook because it is kind of boring and basic. The less complicated, the less stressful for me. I would stress out if I had to be creative on a page.
alana wrote:
I did and liked it at first and then I deactivated it. It is too 'square' for me...I know that sounds stupid but it is. Facebook is sleazy, in a madison avenue sort of way, but it pretends to be the online social networking savior. Fake, fake, fake. I did connect with some old friends. I just don't want to use that facility to be connected with them. I am hoping someone will build a better mousetrap, i.e. make a site that is pro-user. Facebook to me, has an underlying adversarial relationship with their users. At first it was undetectable to me but as the changes became increasingly frequent I just couldn't stand it anymore.
You are pretty funny! I can completely understand everything you are saying. That is how you will make your millions - build that better mousetrap. I really don't like the continued changes. It bugs me.
I can't stand receiving all of those stupid notification of farmville and the other stuff, "someone recieved a cow from someone else." Oh, "Someone started a snowball fight with you or gave you a virtual hug. What the heck? I know there is a way to just turn it off. I need to do that.