Uber indecisiveness driving me crazy

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Is there a such thing as chronic indecisiveness? I've always had this issue, but I am wondering if there is some kind of method I could use to minimize this. The smallest things can be frustrating. Sometimes I won't eat because I can't decide what I want. Or I will stress over whether or not I should buy something. It get's to the point where EVERYTHING is a tough decision.

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The use of uber drives me crazy.

Flip a coin on the small stuff. It doesn't matter. Big stuff write a list of pro's and con's. Pick the one that makes the most sense.

Flip a coin, and what you hope for, during that brief moment the coin is in the air, will be your answer.

I'm also a very indecisive person. I can't decide if I should go to bed at 8, or stay up. I've been like this all day.

I had a lot of indecisiveness (but only about certain things...like your indecisiveness re what to eat) when I was younger. I think some of this fades (at least some) as you get older -- and as you 'predetermine' choices and keep your mind made up. ...Indecisiveness may well be a 'negative' aspect of keeping one's mind open to (too many?) options.

'Uber' is a cool, sophisticated word. LOL

I used to be very indecisive when I was a kid partly because I have bad OCD & I would over-analyze & worry & obsess that I would make the wrong decision & I'd en up causing a problem or that others would judge, criticize or bully me. I've gotten a lot better as I grew older, got bullied less & learned more about myself. I still have a very hard time making bigger decisions but I'm better at making em if they affect someone other than just me. Luckily my girlfriend is good at making life decisions so I defer to her judgment