MissConstrue wrote:
886 wrote:
I'm suprised how many aspies don't drive.
I'm surprised the amount of people who do drive. It's embarrassing to have people ask why I don't drive. I find myself among the very small minority even among NTs.
I think the ratio in this thread is just about what I would have expected, and I know why it would be a problem for everyone else. I can relate to the triggers, but I was really lucky in the driving part of life
For me I am told that I was soothed as a baby by being taken for rides. I spent much of my summers in childhood in either my father's transmission shop, or in my mother's parts delivery truck. I grew up around the automotive business, and as I started to learn more about different makes and models and body types of cars and their various components... it became what is now one of my oldest special interests.
By the time I was driving on my own I had spent so much time in cars that there was nothing scary about them other than the stuff I would make mistakes about (I remember one time when I drove up onto a curb... I almost gave up... but luckily I kept going)
Of course I should say, that I avoid heavy traffic as it still drives me nuts and can easily set me in high-anxiety mode... but the rest is wonderful to me
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Very high systematizing, low empathy, but moderate to high sympathy.
I do not experience cognitive dissonance reduction the way that other people do.
Professionally diagnosed in March 2018