AProudHillbilly wrote:
IdahoRose wrote:
I think what killed it for me was people making fun of me for liking it. I almost wish that MLP hadn't gotten to be so popular, because people seemed to make fun of me for liking it because of the hype surrounding it instead of the fact that it's a kid's show.
I'm sorry people made fun of you for liking it. I'm worried for my son in that regard, as he is highly sensitive, and I'm not about to tell him "you can't like MLP because you're a boy". It was hard enough for him to admit to me that he liked it. But I try to tell him that it's okay to like things that are directed towards girls. He also loves Minecraft and Transformers, so who can make fun of him for that?
I wondered as well if it was an ASD thing when I first came here and saw all the MLP posts, but I recently found out that it's just popular. I found this out when my 16yo daughter was telling me about how most of the kids she knows love it. They don't love it the way kids love it, they just love it. It's a "thing" I guess. There are plenty of bronies (guy fans) as well. They joke about the bronies being gay, and even the bronies themselves joke about it, because that too is just a "thing" and nobody believes it. It's just part of that culture in that crowd she's in. It's never meant mean spiritedly.
Also, then again, being gay isn't a horrible thing to most of the kids in the high school. There are quite a few gay and bi kids who are out and they joke too. It doesn't mean anything with them.
I'd just explain to your son that he should see if other kids mention it and talk about it at school and if there are boys who do, then go for it and hang with them and talk about it some (not constantly though like we tend to sometimes do if we have a strong interest in things) I'd also tell him that if none of the other kids seem to like it or if they talk bad about those who do, then do not mention it. It's not too early to learn to gear your conversation certain ways when around a peer group. If I were to talk about my new obsession with Columbine or my interest in embalming, most people would think I was a freak. So, I don't.
This is a good opportunity for him to start learning to be aware of public opinion and how to deal with it.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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