Prof_Pretorius wrote:
Well, I'm having a bit of a problem locating the exact amount of $$ you'll need to have in the bank, but here's a good link (with some humorous remarks)
http://www.wikihow.com/Move-to-England
I looked at the link and nothing there was dissuading. This idea is in its infancy, but more importantly, so is my life as an asd diagnosee.
I don't know how this thread obtained such a negative tone, but I'm willing to assume it was something I said. I didn't mean to upset anybody. I'm new to this thing and I haven't had much help at all with anticipating peoples' criteria for offense. I'm not looking for negativity, but I'm willing to accept that I have likely provided some.
I have only received my official diagnosis two summers ago. I have gotten no specific treatment. It's hard to tell just where I fit. I don't know if changing countries would help.
If I did upset anyone with what I said about the States, I sincerely apologize. I honestly don't get this place (the US), but I do love it as much as it scares me. It really does scare me, but that is my perception and my problem to solve. I sometimes forgot that ideas are attached to people and I have to develop an idea of what that means.
But as an aspie, I lettered in three sports in HS, also took a hot blonde to my prom and was in the top 1% in science nationally. I have a strange knack for being able to do things I shouldn't be able to. I get the idea that if I decided to live wherever in the world I choose, I would find a way to do it. I didn't hit a 90 mph fastball until I was 34. I think I could hack a friendly border from the good position I am in now.
Regardless of my plans or questions, I want to take responsibility for opening up a discussion that could lead to strong opinions, then not taking care with my own tone. I am slow to realize how my thoughts may affect others. Please, accept my apologies.
I love you all, and I'm devastated at the prospect of making your visits here a bad experience.
-B