30+ and hated your parents more than 10 years?

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Anyone else here 30 or older and have hated their parents for more than 10 years? I'm 30 and I've been hating my parents maybe since age 15 or something, not sure.

My view is that all sensitive (as in a good thing, high sensitivity) people hate their parents. The elite are trying to make people hate their parents and those that don't are simply insensitive.

im in mid 30s i started hating my parents really really after age of 24...u can say its been 10 years now
i hated them from childhood they used to bash me up, hit me with sticks, belts, sandals
starve me and make me do all household chores

but i used to talk with them and was good with them

its in last 3-4 years when the hatred as taken its toll
and i feel like killing them off

I think that only unevolved people love their parents. Already as a child I was different. I remember as a child I asked my grandmother "why do people get children? I don't understand it." She had a puzzled expression and replied "otherwise humanity would die out". I replied "and...?". That's still the question that I have, while a vast majority of people keep reproducing the species in total mindlessness like the virus they really are.

I and 38 and I have a love/hate for my mother but she passed away in 2006. I hate my father but he left when I was about 7 years old. I also hate the rest of my family as well, especially hate my oldest brother the most.

I haven't spoken to any of them since my mothers funeral.

My grandmother also was rather arrogant when I asked. Which I find to be very typical of that kind of people.

My parents never respected my wishes as a child however reasonable they might have been (I really wanted a Raleigh Chopper, never got one because I was a girl; my study choices were not deemed 'girlie' enough either). I hated them so much I ran away at 12 for the first time and by age 13 the system had given up trying to reconcile us and placed me in care.
Spent the next 15-odd years hating them and one day a therapist asked me who's fault it all was. And slowly I came to realize it's not about fault. There is no right and wrong. Most parents try their best. Suppose I got over it in the end by putting things into context. Been a happier person for it ever since.

I don't think anything is my parent's fault since I think they are total puppets, they are nothing but a product of their conditioning. I think it's a sign of being evolved to be in this state I'm in. And getting over it is like taking soma, chances are you'll be reproducing the species like all the other viruses. My hatred of my parents has alienated me from the entire physical world, which I think is a good thing. The unevolved people can have the physical world.

I'm in my late 50s, and have gotten over most of the anger since leaving my relatives in the Midwest about 25 years ago. While I don't hate them, they did turn their collective backs on me when I needed their help the most, so I believe that I am perfectly justified in keeping them out of my life now that I'm successful.

Sure, let them visit me here in California, but they have to buy their own Disney tickets!