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30 Nov 2016, 1:05 pm

do you feel genderless? i feel like neither a man nor a woman. i don't fit in with either gender.



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30 Nov 2016, 1:37 pm

Yes I do, and I consider myself nonbinary. I'm not yet out to my family though and still use my feminine name and pronouns with them. I rarely if ever feel feminine and generally waver from masculine to centre.


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01 Dec 2016, 12:42 pm

Good question and I'm trying to find a way of answering it.


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01 Dec 2016, 12:43 pm

Yes...


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01 Dec 2016, 12:48 pm

I am not unhappy to be male, but I've always felt androgynous in terms of personality.
I am trans-avatared in terms of video games, though; if I can't play as a female character I'm disappointed. So that's kind of weird.



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01 Dec 2016, 1:39 pm

I'm androgynous in looks and personality, but I do have the softer traits of femininity.


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02 Dec 2016, 5:37 am

Kuraudo777 wrote:
I'm androgynous in looks and personality, but I do have the softer traits of femininity.



Same here, for the most part.

Never really sure what to make of it. Doesnt help that people can sometimes get a little weird about it.



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02 Dec 2016, 12:45 pm

Yes. Yes I do.


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05 Dec 2016, 2:15 pm

Sometimes I feel like my mind is genderless and only my body is female, but I have no problem with it, I don't mind being called a girl or having a girl's body, it's just something I find hard to believe sometimes.



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05 Dec 2016, 4:18 pm

I feel like neither gender. Most of the time, I don't even think about gender. Defining my gender is like dividing by zero.



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05 Dec 2016, 7:48 pm

thats an excellent question, i guess technically yes. i dont always feel the manness but i dont feel feminine at all. so i guess yes.

a really good question, it made me think about it


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05 Dec 2016, 7:58 pm

I know I'm a girl, but it's not a part of my personality. It just means I have periods and sometimes I like wearing women's shirts. The rest of my personality has nothing to do with my gender. So... I'm not sure. I don't identify as agender but I don't care about my gender either.



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05 Dec 2016, 7:59 pm

In a way. I don't feel I conform to the male stereotype & I felt like I was born the wrong sex before. Nowadays I don't really feel I conform to the female stereotype either thou.


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05 Dec 2016, 8:47 pm

I feel as prissy, girly and frilly as it gets, so I'd think it's pretty safe to say that I'm a girl in every way possible.


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07 Dec 2016, 6:45 pm

I consider myself to be extremely non-binary. I identify as male instead of my icky birth gender.


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08 Dec 2016, 7:07 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
I consider myself to be extremely non-binary. I identify as male instead of my icky birth gender.


I too consider femininity icky and am actually wondering whether I'm FTM rather than inbetween. I think I could make the leap, but there are some "girl" things I'm still very attached to such as certain pieces of jewellery. The trend recently is unisex clothing but it probably won't be the trend in five years. And that could leave me open to abuse for not being "man" enough. I'm also into the glam rock and New Romantic aesthetics which value androgyny so that may offset things.

I'm definitely gender nonconforming no matter which side you view me from :)


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