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17 Mar 2019, 4:58 pm

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I am grateful to this forum fr allowing me to go crazy posting n ranting or other things

I amgrateful tht ppl generally ignore or respond in a nice way

I amgrateful knowing mosr ASD ppl are not rabid and are willing to listen to support or ignore each other but not cruel like NT ppl are towards me


I'm not sure if people ignore so much as don't know what to say? Or at least just miss certain posts. Either way, people here to seem pretty okay. I haven't seen much in the way of hateful words so far.


I don’t mind being ignored - would much rather that than irritating ppl - thats why this format is so good fr ppl like me who have a lot to say n dont know how to stop


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17 Mar 2019, 6:20 pm

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I don’t mind being ignored - would much rather that than irritating ppl - thats why this format is so good fr ppl like me who have a lot to say n dont know how to stop


I've thought this many times about this site. Are you psychic? 8O :P


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17 Mar 2019, 6:33 pm

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I don’t mind being ignored - would much rather that than irritating ppl - thats why this format is so good fr ppl like me who have a lot to say n dont know how to stop


I've thought this many times about this site. Are you psychic? 8O :P

I often get angry at myself for saying anything at all because people may find me irritating. The more I say the more it starts to weigh on my mind. If it makes you both feel better I like to read what both of you have to say even if I may not add a response. Sometimes I feel like an old man on the bus talking to himself thinking out loud.


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17 Mar 2019, 7:04 pm

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I don’t mind being ignored - would much rather that than irritating ppl - thats why this format is so good fr ppl like me who have a lot to say n dont know how to stop


I've thought this many times about this site. Are you psychic? 8O :P

I often get angry at myself for saying anything at all because people may find me irritating. The more I say the more it starts to weigh on my mind. If it makes you both feel better I like to read what both of you have to say even if I may not add a response. Sometimes I feel like an old man on the bus talking to himself thinking out loud.


When i say things to someone, even here, online, it feels less like a burden.

When ppl misinterpreted me or misunderstood OR i dont understand their point OR misunderstood OR i wronged someone somehow
That is where it is really bad
At least online forums have the advantage that u can ignore n be ignored if that is the case- it doesnt have to get more dramatic than that. Simple :lol:


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17 Mar 2019, 7:10 pm

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I don’t mind being ignored - would much rather that than irritating ppl - thats why this format is so good fr ppl like me who have a lot to say n dont know how to stop


I've thought this many times about this site. Are you psychic? 8O :P

I often get angry at myself for saying anything at all because people may find me irritating. The more I say the more it starts to weigh on my mind. If it makes you both feel better I like to read what both of you have to say even if I may not add a response. Sometimes I feel like an old man on the bus talking to himself thinking out loud.


Maybe we've all had the same experience of weirding everyone around us out or annoying them with inane, endless chatter that we just assume that's always the response, even when the conversation is entirely with ourselves?


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17 Mar 2019, 7:16 pm

Yeh my chatter really annoyed my brother

when we were in high school even though he was extremely nice most of the time except TWO times

as i was quite annoying then n did overstep my bounds

as I thought everything was black n white n everything i did not understand was wrong.. he really (actually another brother too) got mad at me then
Not only that i hadzero ability to reatrain my emotions so if i got overloaded at school frm too much stimulus etc

I wd act v annoyed n angry n ranting

Now i know n generally keep to myself when that happens or rant online


Now im more mature n understand tht not everyone is me (theory of mind) so im somewhat less annoying

But i know when i annoy or anger ppl they are too polite to say


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17 Mar 2019, 7:18 pm

blackicmenace wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
blooiejagwa wrote:
I don’t mind being ignored - would much rather that than irritating ppl - thats why this format is so good fr ppl like me who have a lot to say n dont know how to stop


I've thought this many times about this site. Are you psychic? 8O :P

I often get angry at myself for saying anything at all because people may find me irritating. The more I say the more it starts to weigh on my mind. If it makes you both feel better I like to read what both of you have to say even if I may not add a response. Sometimes I feel like an old man on the bus talking to himself thinking out loud.


Ah, ok. I get what you're both saying. I don't get angry at myself but I do find myself agonizing over the things I said even when people assure me it's ok. But yeah, it can be kind of difficult to think of something to say. I haven't seen anything either of you have said that irritates me in any way, and I think sometimes I even kind of silympathize even in the situations where I don't comment.


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17 Mar 2019, 7:22 pm

Song I wrote for my guinea pig:
Pookie-wookie, you're so swell,
I clean your cage so you don't smell,
Pookie-wookie, you're a pal of mine!
Pookie-wookie you're so cute,
from your nose to your patoot,
Pookie-wookie you're such a good friend of mine!



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17 Mar 2019, 7:24 pm

That is cute


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17 Mar 2019, 7:26 pm

blooiejagwa wrote:
Yeh my chatter really annoyed my brother

when we were in high school even though he was extremely nice most of the time except TWO times

as i was quite annoying then n did overstep my bounds

as I thought everything was black n white n everything i did not understand was wrong.. he really (actually another brother too) got mad at me then
Not only that i hadzero ability to reatrain my emotions so if i got overloaded at school frm too much stimulus etc

I wd act v annoyed n angry n ranting

Now i know n generally keep to myself when that happens or rant online


Now im more mature n understand tht not everyone is me (theory of mind) so im somewhat less annoying

But i know when i annoy or anger ppl they are too polite to say


Honestly I've kind of gotten to the point where I keep to myself as well. But it's become kind of frustrating because I really want to talk to people but I'm so afraid that I'm going to offend them or anger them or something, and that would be fine if they told me what I did wrong but I know at this point that they won't. I guess it is nice to be ignored sometimes, though probably not always.


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17 Mar 2019, 7:28 pm

Debbiegirl wrote:
Song I wrote for my guinea pig:
Pookie-wookie, you're so swell,
I clean your cage so you don't smell,
Pookie-wookie, you're a pal of mine!
Pookie-wookie you're so cute,
from your nose to your patoot,
Pookie-wookie you're such a good friend of mine!


I initiallu started reading that in the tune of Mickey by Tony Basil.


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17 Mar 2019, 7:37 pm

Debbiegirl wrote:
Song I wrote for my guinea pig:
Pookie-wookie, you're so swell,
I clean your cage so you don't smell,
Pookie-wookie, you're a pal of mine!
Pookie-wookie you're so cute,
from your nose to your patoot,
Pookie-wookie you're such a good friend of mine!

That's a lovely Song. What a lucky guinea pig.


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17 Mar 2019, 7:40 pm

Rad Rockit wrote:
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Yeh my chatter really annoyed my brother

when we were in high school even though he was extremely nice most of the time except TWO times

as i was quite annoying then n did overstep my bounds

as I thought everything was black n white n everything i did not understand was wrong.. he really (actually another brother too) got mad at me then
Not only that i hadzero ability to reatrain my emotions so if i got overloaded at school frm too much stimulus etc

I wd act v annoyed n angry n ranting

Now i know n generally keep to myself when that happens or rant online


Now im more mature n understand tht not everyone is me (theory of mind) so im somewhat less annoying

But i know when i annoy or anger ppl they are too polite to say


Honestly I've kind of gotten to the point where I keep to myself as well. But it's become kind of frustrating because I really want to talk to people but I'm so afraid that I'm going to offend them or anger them or something, and that would be fine if they told me what I did wrong but I know at this point that they won't. I guess it is nice to be ignored sometimes, though probably not always.


Isn’t it amazing how so many ppl here have similar experiences which ppl around us cannot relate to esp not to the degree we have it happen

Just be careful not to think so low or be so willing to see it frm their point of view that your opinion of yourself diminishes fr no reason
Then those who are less than noble will see u as an ideal person to gaslight or slander as u already saved them the work of the hard parts that lead up to gaslighting bullying n sland

The work of isolation n being afraid to offend /acting ‘guilty’ in others’ view


My ExH wd never tell me wht angered him or if he did it was completely BS

One time i felt so unnecessariky bad n apologized to a lady who had actially lied about me behind my
back

bcuz i was convinced my ‘naturally evil face’ offended her n she was therefore justified


This gave her the perfect opening to gaslight n lie about me, TO me, in writing, which to any outsider wd seem like she had been speaking the truth the whole time

Thats why u shd be careful of being too afraid of offending
or being that sure u anger ppl
Just dont want such things to happen to others


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17 Mar 2019, 7:52 pm

Debbiegirl,

Cute song!



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17 Mar 2019, 8:21 pm

blooiejagwa wrote:
Rad Rockit wrote:
blooiejagwa wrote:
Yeh my chatter really annoyed my brother

when we were in high school even though he was extremely nice most of the time except TWO times

as i was quite annoying then n did overstep my bounds

as I thought everything was black n white n everything i did not understand was wrong.. he really (actually another brother too) got mad at me then
Not only that i hadzero ability to reatrain my emotions so if i got overloaded at school frm too much stimulus etc

I wd act v annoyed n angry n ranting

Now i know n generally keep to myself when that happens or rant online


Now im more mature n understand tht not everyone is me (theory of mind) so im somewhat less annoying

But i know when i annoy or anger ppl they are too polite to say


Honestly I've kind of gotten to the point where I keep to myself as well. But it's become kind of frustrating because I really want to talk to people but I'm so afraid that I'm going to offend them or anger them or something, and that would be fine if they told me what I did wrong but I know at this point that they won't. I guess it is nice to be ignored sometimes, though probably not always.


Isn’t it amazing how so many ppl here have similar experiences which ppl around us cannot relate to esp not to the degree we have it happen

Just be careful not to think so low or be so willing to see it frm their point of view that your opinion of yourself diminishes fr no reason
Then those who are less than noble will see u as an ideal person to gaslight or slander as u already saved them the work of the hard parts that lead up to gaslighting bullying n sland

The work of isolation n being afraid to offend /acting ‘guilty’ in others’ view


My ExH wd never tell me wht angered him or if he did it was completely BS

One time i felt so unnecessariky bad n apologized to a lady who had actially lied about me behind my
back

bcuz i was convinced my ‘naturally evil face’ offended her n she was therefore justified


This gave her the perfect opening to gaslight n lie about me, TO me, in writing, which to any outsider wd seem like she had been speaking the truth the whole time

Thats why u shd be careful of being too afraid of offending
or being that sure u anger ppl
Just dont want such things to happen to others


I have a lot of trouble getting close enough to people to get that kind of treatment really. It's kind of a blessing as much as it is a curse. But yeah, I don't understand people, but I do at least figure they have their reasons for acting the way they do, and even if I can't figure them out, I can attempt to respect them as much as possible. I do appreciate your concern very much, and feel pretty bad you went through that stuff with the lady and thinking you were the cause. I can kind of understand that. I'm pretty sure that I put off an intimidating vibe with my facial expressions as well and being as big as I am, I just assume people are wary of me. I definitely wouldn't want to people to go through your experiences either. And I do also hope it helps to know that at least some of us aren't ignoring you even if we don't chime in.

Edit: also yeah, it is strange for me finding people with similar experiences with people and such. But it's also really nice to not feel alone.


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18 Mar 2019, 9:10 am

If video games are so bad, then why do people continue to play them?