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25 Sep 2007, 5:28 pm

again, no.

"I have some pictures of you doing naughty things. Do you want me to show them to your father?"

trembling, "n-no"



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25 Sep 2007, 5:45 pm

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again, no.

"I have some pictures of you doing naughty things. Do you want me to show them to your father?"

trembling, "n-no"


Persons with aspergers are often honest to a fault but they are
also by definition terrible at understanding social situations.
Reading your other posts its clear a major variable your leaving
out of the equation is the level of behavior problems you likely manifested to your grandfather. I would guess you likely have a low opinion of most people in general.



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25 Sep 2007, 6:18 pm

DR_NaTan wrote:
digger1 wrote:
again, no.

"I have some pictures of you doing naughty things. Do you want me to show them to your father?"

trembling, "n-no"


Persons with aspergers are often honest to a fault but they are
also by definition terrible at understanding social situations.
Reading your other posts its clear a major variable your leaving
out of the equation is the level of behavior problems you likely manifested to your grandfather. I would guess you likely have a low opinion of most people in general.


I would question your motive for being on a forum for Aspergers when you clearly are here to use your psychology textbook knowledge as a means of making people here for support feel even more alienated... you are an NT, you made no introduction, and you jump in by using Aspergers as an excuse for the abuse this individual may have suffered? I find it intriguing that you think people with AS lack the intelligence to know the difference between abuse and non-abuse. Just what, exactly, do you think we are? And who do you think you are to come into someone's thread and throw out a load of psychology rubbish that most aspies actually are fully aware of anyway?



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25 Sep 2007, 6:26 pm

Sounds as though he's trying to get a rise out of someone. Ignore this obnoxious cretin.



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25 Sep 2007, 6:31 pm

Tequila wrote:
Sounds as though he's trying to get a rise out of someone. Ignore this obnoxious cretin.


God alone knows... not that I believe in a God :P
But I view this as an NT using other members' AS to invalidate them.



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25 Sep 2007, 7:05 pm

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I would question your motive for being on a forum for Aspergers


I googled "autism aspergers murder" and found this site. I then
find a post of a person that is indiffernet to the death of a family member and to be honest I wanted him to explain more.



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25 Sep 2007, 7:08 pm

DR_NaTan wrote:
Graelwyn wrote:
I would question your motive for being on a forum for Aspergers


I googled "autism aspergers murder" and found this site. I then
find a post of a person that is indiffernet to the death of a family member and to be honest I wanted him to explain more.


You do not seem like you are here for a valid reason. What is your reason here? You're not Dr Stephen Juan, are you?


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25 Sep 2007, 7:20 pm

Quatermass wrote:
DR_NaTan wrote:
Graelwyn wrote:
I would question your motive for being on a forum for Aspergers


I googled "autism aspergers murder" and found this site. I then
find a post of a person that is indiffernet to the death of a family member and to be honest I wanted him to explain more.


You do not seem like you are here for a valid reason. What is your reason here? You're not Dr Stephen Juan, are you?


No valid reason really and no I'm not Dr Stephen Juan. Not trying to upset this bloke either.



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25 Sep 2007, 7:23 pm

DR_NaTan wrote:
Graelwyn wrote:
I would question your motive for being on a forum for Aspergers


I googled "autism aspergers murder" and found this site. I then
find a post of a person that is indiffernet to the death of a family member and to be honest I wanted him to explain more.


Well, I haven't seen anything about 'autism aspergers murder' around here.
I certainly don't believe you are a DR. as in M.D.
I think your credibility suffers from your whole attitude and the manner in which you started posting here.

My opinion could change, but not if you keep posting in the same vein as you have been.

Leave Digger's diagnosis to a professional who has the opportunity to see him in person and quit practicing your pseudo-psychiatry here.

That's the best advise I can offer.


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25 Sep 2007, 7:26 pm

It's on paper. "Asperger's Disorder" also, "Personality Disorder NOS". Don't know what the NOS means.



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25 Sep 2007, 7:28 pm

DR_NaTan wrote:
Quatermass wrote:
DR_NaTan wrote:
Graelwyn wrote:
I would question your motive for being on a forum for Aspergers


I googled "autism aspergers murder" and found this site. I then
find a post of a person that is indiffernet to the death of a family member and to be honest I wanted him to explain more.


You do not seem like you are here for a valid reason. What is your reason here? You're not Dr Stephen Juan, are you?


No valid reason really and no I'm not Dr Stephen Juan. Not trying to upset this bloke either.


Well, regardless of intent, you're doing a good job.


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25 Sep 2007, 7:29 pm

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It's on paper. "Asperger's Disorder" also, "Personality Disorder NOS". Don't know what the NOS means.


NOS- not otherwise specified...ie, they didn't know which one you fit best :P



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26 Sep 2007, 10:28 am

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he was abusive. He liked to watch me towel off after a bath or a shower. He frequently called me a freak. Whenever we drove by the Maine Youth Center, he said that someday I'll wind up there. When I was at his place for a stay, he used to like to take surreptitious pictures of me doing stuff and then threaten to show them to my father. I remember hearing the shutter click but him not being there and all I was doing was cleaning a picnic table with formula 409 and began to thing that was wrong because he took a picture and asked me if I wanted my father to see it.

So, cleaning is wrong?

May he burn.



Ugh. Sorry you had to experience someone like that in your family.


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