23 Aug 2010, 8:05 pm
sylvr wrote:
Erisad wrote:
Me too. My mom doesn't understand how I think and that yelling at me isn't going to help. She says that Asperger's is just an excuse. To be honest, Mom and Grandma are both fat too. Mom says she wants to lose weight but doesn't really put in the effort. Grandma loves butter and fried foods like it were her fifth child. D:
I agree. I don't wanna have my family see me that way. Most of them already think I'm a freak as it is. D:
I agree. I don't wanna have my family see me that way. Most of them already think I'm a freak as it is. D:
Heh yeah my mom's like "I was with you when you got your ADHD diagnosis. I was the one who was THERE!
" and is meanwhile "oh you don't have this.. Asperger's. You don't have a special interest." 
So therefore she thinks she understands me (though even in the first place "no you don't have ADHD now sit down and finish your mathwork!" But my mom and grandma aren't fat. Grandma's a tiny diabetic and mom has just started weightwatchers. Meanwhile I was bad for overeating and snacking before I realized myself, and I have a hard time with exercise because of my basically deformed-feet. But of course it's all "just an excuse". As in "I can do it, why can't you? Come on it's not so hard!" Oh life.
Sorry to hear that.
Basically, I want to get my license and move away as soon as possible. D:
TeaEarlGreyHot - I wish I had a size 10/12 anything. I don't think I was ever that small since before puberty.
23 Aug 2010, 8:06 pm
23 Aug 2010, 8:10 pm
23 Aug 2010, 8:12 pm
23 Aug 2010, 8:14 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Erisad wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot - I wish I had a size 10/12 anything. I don't think I was ever that small since before puberty.
*sigh* If you don't like your fat, exercise! Use heavier weights... the ones you're using aren't going to do sh**. And no... heavier weights aren't going to make you look like a body builder.
Also, stop telling me in stupid whiny ways that I'm lucky. Just because I'm smaller doesn't mean I don't have problems with my body.
I just do more repetitions with the weights that I have. I don't have a lot of upper body strength either. They're kettle bells so the weight distribution is good for toning and stuff. Any exercise is good for me at this point. I'm sweating heavily at the end of my workouts so I'm burning off some calories right?
I'm sorry.
Kilroy - Lol Richard Simmons. I'm not a fan of him though. Good on him for maintaining good shape for his age though.
23 Aug 2010, 8:14 pm
Kilroy wrote:
I weigh 120 lbs and I have all sorts of problems
being thin doesn't always equal success, nor does it equal happiness
being thin doesn't always equal success, nor does it equal happiness
Exactly. Though, maybe I'm still hurt that I admitted to hating my hourglass figure and got nothing but "You're so LUCKY!"
23 Aug 2010, 8:15 pm
23 Aug 2010, 8:16 pm
I lost 6 teeth, almost had cancer and dropped down to 90lbs because of various sicknesses
oh yeah I really wanna go back there 
I am just now getting back up to normal weight
I am short so it evens out pretty well
23 Aug 2010, 8:18 pm
23 Aug 2010, 8:18 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
I weigh 120 lbs and I have all sorts of problems
being thin doesn't always equal success, nor does it equal happiness
being thin doesn't always equal success, nor does it equal happiness
Exactly. Though, maybe I'm still hurt that I admitted to hating my hourglass figure and got nothing but "You're so LUCKY!"
*whimpers and cowers into a corner* Sorrrrryyyyyyyyyyyy. D:
23 Aug 2010, 8:20 pm
Erisad wrote:
I just do more repetitions with the weights that I have. I don't have a lot of upper body strength either. They're kettle bells so the weight distribution is good for toning and stuff. Any exercise is good for me at this point. I'm sweating heavily at the end of my workouts so I'm burning off some calories right?
I'm sorry.
I guess, but don't be afraid to do heavier weights. At some point, what you have won't be enough.
Thank you. Just please be more aware of what you're saying. Telling a transgender she's lucky to have a woman's body is a bit insulting.
23 Aug 2010, 8:20 pm
Kilroy wrote:
Erisad wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
I weigh 120 lbs and I have all sorts of problems
being thin doesn't always equal success, nor does it equal happiness
being thin doesn't always equal success, nor does it equal happiness
I know. If the whole weight issue wasn't shoved in my face everyday it wouldn't bother me so much. >.<
a lot of things get shoved in a lot of people's faces
look at all the guys here whining about not getting laid
I don't even though I am not getting any
cause you come to like who you are, good and the bad
if you don't love yourself how can anyone else love you
I am not close to being a model or anything, but I do feel good about my body, something everyone should I think, good and bad you are you
and rather then the world letting you feel bad, try to feel good
I donno, but I think something in there works somehow
Thanks.
I guess I was just feeling a tad frustrated. D:
23 Aug 2010, 8:21 pm
23 Aug 2010, 8:24 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Erisad wrote:
I just do more repetitions with the weights that I have. I don't have a lot of upper body strength either. They're kettle bells so the weight distribution is good for toning and stuff. Any exercise is good for me at this point. I'm sweating heavily at the end of my workouts so I'm burning off some calories right?
I'm sorry.
I guess, but don't be afraid to do heavier weights. At some point, what you have won't be enough.
Thank you. Just please be more aware of what you're saying. Telling a transgender she's lucky to have a woman's body is a bit insulting.
I'll worry about that when I get there. I was using 5 pounders last month and moved up. If I get more money, I could buy a 20 pound weight or I could put it on my Christmas list.
Okay. Hug?
23 Aug 2010, 8:25 pm
Kilroy wrote:
I could go on for hours on why I feel the world has mistreated me, but you cant always look at it like that
because this is the life you have
live it or don't
thats the choices, you can't wait for things to come to you
you need to go out and carve it out yourself
because this is the life you have
live it or don't
thats the choices, you can't wait for things to come to you
you need to go out and carve it out yourself
Okay. But I can't carve at my body cuz that would hurt. >.<
Lol, I get what you're saying though.
23 Aug 2010, 8:25 pm
Kilroy wrote:
I lost 6 teeth, almost had cancer and dropped down to 90lbs because of various sicknesses
oh yeah I really wanna go back there
I am just now getting back up to normal weight
I am short so it evens out pretty well
oh yeah I really wanna go back there
I am just now getting back up to normal weight
I am short so it evens out pretty well
I can definitely relate to the weight thing. I used to have complete strangers follow me into the bathroom to make sure I wasn't throwing up. Oh... and having my foster mother tell me to pack rocks in my backpack in windy days while my grandpa told me I had to walk by twice to make a shadow didn't help matters.
| Similar Topics | |
|---|---|
| Is it OK to always hate some parts of yourself? |
29 Dec 2024, 2:36 pm |
| I hate holidays bc I can't interact- anyone have advice??? |
29 Dec 2024, 2:33 pm |
| Calls for hate crime charges after Jewish man shot |
31 Oct 2024, 8:31 pm |
