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FluttercordAspie93
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29 Sep 2016, 6:37 pm

I need someone to talk to... Normally, I've avoided being pessimistic for years, but it's just crept right back, again... All because of my weight, and I feel incredibly childish about it.



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29 Sep 2016, 9:02 pm

Hmmmm.....

Can I double gardening as well? :twisted: Along with math. Maybe baking. And I'm not done with crochet and knitting.

Two choices to drop - Work or sleep.
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DROP SLEEPING!! ! : :x


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29 Sep 2016, 9:10 pm

FluttercordAspie93 wrote:
I need someone to talk to... Normally, I've avoided being pessimistic for years, but it's just crept right back, again... All because of my weight, and I feel incredibly childish about it.



Dear FluttercordAspie93, try not to let your weight difficulties get you down and so forth.My own sister has had weight issues though, never had I made an issue of it nor tormented her about it either.
To simply put it I was always seen as frail and weak due to my physical form whereby, I've always done my best to live life without the stupid people tormenting me. It's not easy regardless of what specific difficulties one faces, merely that we all try to do our best.


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29 Sep 2016, 11:04 pm

^ Weight issues can come in at any weight, too. It doesn't necessarily only affect plus sizes - if you're slender and have out some on or are having trouble toning up that can screw you too ... I don't know if that is actually helpful. I suppose I'm saying it can happen to anyone, but you can always improve it no matter your weight. :)
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30 Sep 2016, 4:46 am

More autistic doesn't always mean less functioning. So does the other way around. :|


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30 Sep 2016, 12:20 pm

Am I not correct in stating, that if you plant to many flowers in one singular area, that such will result in overcrowding and possible resource fighting amongst such?


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30 Sep 2016, 12:27 pm

Raleigh wrote:
I wonder if I posted a cancer thread.
Like, my experience of it.
Would people find that distasteful?
No one would be interested, probably.
Meh.



No Raleigh, if you feel like writing about your experience and it helps by all means, go for it :) I would certainly read what you have to say :)



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30 Sep 2016, 12:28 pm

Our laundry room is the same room where the toilet is and I hate it when people don't take their folded clothes upstairs. I have my own towels and the amount of towels to fold is very overwhelming. Anyone who blames my weight on this is wrong. I'm not that freaking big! I don't struggle to do every day task such as getting laundry done and I don't bump in the toilet even though it's right next to the dryer and people leave their clothes on top of the dryer and when their clothes are dry they leave them in the dryer and leave a full sized load in the washer.

This hasn't been blamed on my size. Maybe the reason I assume what people are thinking about my weight is that people have blamed my size on so many things. To give an example, I got a small cake for my birthday. It was small to the point where no one else could share it with me because it was that small. I ate half of the cake and planned to have half later. Someone was standing over me and said "It's not made to be eaten in one sitting." In front of everyone in the room. I wasn't even going to eat the entire cake! I'm so confused because people have accused me of not eating healthy yet they want me to have chocolate and cupcakes as a treat. I told these people that I'd treat myself once a month and then they asked "Are you treating yourself once a month or once a week?"

That's why every time I don't do something perfectly I assume it's because of my weight.

Sorry for the rant. I'm super stressed out right now.


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30 Sep 2016, 12:29 pm

kazanscube wrote:
FluttercordAspie93 wrote:
I need someone to talk to... Normally, I've avoided being pessimistic for years, but it's just crept right back, again... All because of my weight, and I feel incredibly childish about it.



Dear FluttercordAspie93, try not to let your weight difficulties get you down and so forth.My own sister has had weight issues though, never had I made an issue of it nor tormented her about it either.
To simply put it I was always seen as frail and weak due to my physical form whereby, I've always done my best to live life without the stupid people tormenting me. It's not easy regardless of what specific difficulties one faces, merely that we all try to do our best.


@kazanscube: Thank you. :)



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30 Sep 2016, 12:50 pm

Raleigh wrote:
I wonder if I posted a cancer thread.
Like, my experience of it.
Would people find that distasteful?
No one would be interested, probably.
Meh.


I would be interested. I believe it is just a matter of time before I get cancer. I'd like to know what to expect. I would also be interested in how a person copes psychologically with such a challenging situation. There is grace in how you cope.


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01 Oct 2016, 2:35 am

That I'm very confused and sad about something and I don't know what to think anymore. :(


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01 Oct 2016, 5:02 am

SilentJessica wrote:
That I'm very confused and sad about something and I don't know what to think anymore. :(



Im sorry to hear that Jessica! :( Did you want to talk about it? or keep it private? i truly hope you feel better soon! :)



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01 Oct 2016, 5:07 am

This hollowness thats causing this insomnia has to stop... not being able to sleep right sucks...



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Oh wow, I'm feeling its effects already. It's beginning to really itch and burn a little. I did it about 10 minutes ago. I didn't expect this at all. This is cool!!


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01 Oct 2016, 9:14 am

My friends all went on vacation without me :( I'm trying not to be upset, but I feel hurt.


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