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28 Dec 2016, 1:46 pm

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^I tried my best :(

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I'll still buy it for $10.

Rolling a dice on that web cam, hope its more to the right lulz



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28 Dec 2016, 1:49 pm

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I think I'm going to leave my job. It is causing me to have horrible panic attacks and meltdowns. I feel like I am on sensory overload the entire time I am there. I have enough money saved up for a bit and I can always look for a more AS-friendly job or take more classes in school for now.


:? :cry:

Wish the best for you,

Its probably not that bad, I got in a few fist fights at work so your probably doing wonderful compared to me.



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28 Dec 2016, 1:53 pm

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I think I'm going to leave my job. It is causing me to have horrible panic attacks and meltdowns. I feel like I am on sensory overload the entire time I am there. I have enough money saved up for a bit and I can always look for a more AS-friendly job or take more classes in school for now.


:? :cry:

Wish the best for you,

Its probably not that bad, I got in a few fist fights at work so your probably doing wonderful compared to me.


Thanks. I didn't get into any fist fights, I just have trouble with all of the commands and my manager yelling at me constantly makes me cry all the time I'm there. I told my boss about my Autism and she didn't care about it. I think she thought I was using it as an excuse, which was not my intention. I guess it came off that way, however. She has been exceptionally bad the last few days, and I have lost all hope of it ever getting better. Restaurant work must not be for me.


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28 Dec 2016, 1:55 pm

^^^I have actually taped over my web camera. It stems from when I was on a internett dating site, and emailed back and forth with a former computer programmer. One of his emails where full of some sort of codes, and there was a link (that I clicked on :roll: ) When I told him about the weird email he said " Ohhh, let's see if I can fix it". And he did. But from that moment on my paranoia was on 8)



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28 Dec 2016, 2:04 pm

Yeah... okay...

I'll probably get chewed out for this but I don't care and you are probably going to be fired. Hard core truth mode activated, that was bad idea telling her about autism and her being exceptionally bad probably means she is going to fire you. She is probably just looking for an excuse at this point. If she is being rude, she doesn't f**k about your intention nor about you as a human being. She is angry because she has an employee that is having trouble with all of the commands. She could absolute care less why, business is like that. You could be a wonderful person and she doesn't care because her best interest is suffering and it doesn't matter why.

Personally... though you know my methods are not good... I would have words with her and probably light kitchen on fire why I was talking...

Now... that was ugly but here is the good news, you can do it too, if its in your best interest to leave then F her and leave.

Business 101 - its why Trump is a dick, he might be a horrible leader but he is probably a great business man.



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28 Dec 2016, 2:22 pm

Sorry, I didn't mean to be rude...

Its true though, companies would fire African Americans for being black and write some comparison to monkeys if they could legally get away with it. Its how they function, they get up in the morning just to examine the difference between unethical and illegal.



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28 Dec 2016, 2:23 pm

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Yeah... okay...

I'll probably get chewed out for this but I don't care and you are probably going to be fired. Hard core truth mode activated, that was bad idea telling her about autism and her being exceptionally bad probably means she is going to fire you. She is probably just looking for an excuse at this point. If she is being rude, she doesn't f**k about your intention nor about you as a human being. She is angry because she has an employee that is having trouble with all of the commands. She could absolute care less why, business is like that. You could be a wonderful person and she doesn't care because her best interest is suffering and it doesn't matter why.

Personally... though you know my methods are not good... I would have words with her and probably light kitchen on fire why I was talking...

Now... that was ugly but here is the good news, you can do it too, if its in your best interest to leave then F her and leave.

Business 101 - its why Trump is a dick, he might be a horrible leader but he is probably a great business man.


Yeah. I'm gonna quit before I can get fired. Don't worry. I appreciate your honesty.


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28 Dec 2016, 2:52 pm

When I was about 19 I worked in a grocery for about six months. I was in charge of the fruit and vegetables section and I was also number two to be called on for the checkout/cash register. An interessting thing I noticed is that even though I litterary ran around the store, I didn't manage to keep up with the other employees even though they didn't run. I don't know why.

Another thing that told me that I was so not cut out for that kind of work is how I felt about sitting in the checkout. I have heard other people who have that job say that they like it when the customer small talks about the same things over and over again. It can make them feel good, it can give them energy. I on the other hand got so sick of it! A customer could come and say in a nice way " I have some change, I hope you need some change" and in my head I was like "Oh really, do you now. Like you are not the tenth person who says that today"

TheSilentOne - Sounds like your boss isn't the most compasionate one. If she feels that you are not keeping up, I personly think she should have told you so. Without being mean or loosing her temper.



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28 Dec 2016, 3:33 pm

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28 Dec 2016, 5:06 pm

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..But it really was a bunch of bullcrap...


Ah dads, yours and mine sound very similar.


Hm... no...

... Maybe...

Probably not...

I don't know... how to reply to this...

My dad looks to be bulimic...

I don't really know why or how but its true...

He vomited everything up he has eaten the entire time I was down there... it is what it is, life is strange and honestly its not my place to really talk about and I don't spread other people's business. I am sure its a lot of bullcrap though, I don't know why things can't be normal but they never have and they never willl be. Its life...

Maybe he feels he needs to have an issue because everyone around him has an issue, I don't know...

It is what it is.


I doubt very much that your father is faking bulimia though. Still, he sounds quite difficult to deal with.

My dad can act like a real jerk but yet, he's a good person. Today, he grumpily complained that it took me a whole damn hour to respond to his text. Screw that! I don't apologize for reading texts later, especially when I get a bunch at once. Goodness, imagine if his had been hours later, which I've been known to do. Would his yell shake the earth? :roll:

Anyway, dumb rant over. I wish I had something awesome to say as Racheypie falls apart. :( Did anything new happen to make things worse? Hugs. And to DCJ as well, with all those inner demons. :(

SilentOne, that's awful about your boss. :( The job doesn't seem worth all those panic attacks and meltdowns either, especially if they'd be better in other environments. Also, I hope you've managed to enjoy the holidays despite your illness. Hugs.



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28 Dec 2016, 5:23 pm

Yeah I am tired actually...

My neighbors suck and my mom wants me to call the cops and talk to my landlord and I don't want to. I just wish everyone would F ing die... okay actually I don't but I need to release that, I just am having an annoying day. I don't know how to relax really, I just exist sometimes and right now is one of those times.

I wish life has been kinder to me.

Oh and I don't know what you mean DataB4, I am a bit shutdown from all the freaking noise last night but my dad is just an idiot for record /Topic so there. He thinks... that... nevermind, I am walking away. Basically we are filth, he uses OCD as an excuse to talk about how nasty everything is and even sarcastic jokes about how "autistic" he is so he is a jerk and he never thinks, he can kiss my ass but he is like mental or something I don't know. My grandmother on his side had some kind of defective too that made her a real prize to be around as well.



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28 Dec 2016, 5:34 pm

Ah my dad is QA basically...

Except QA would tell you its okay, my dad is QA that doesn't understand soical norms because he decided not to see social norms. He is obvious making fun of me and I am not alone, he was cruel basically...

But he has always been chauvinistic towards my mom so its not really anything new but now he is... QA basically.

Think I nailed it :P

QA I love you if your reading this :mrgreen:

My dad complained the entire time I was in his presence basically :evil:



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28 Dec 2016, 6:02 pm

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My dad can act like a real jerk but yet, he's a good person. Today, he grumpily complained that it took me a whole damn hour to respond to his text. Screw that! I don't apologize for reading texts later, especially when I get a bunch at once. Goodness, imagine if his had been hours later, which I've been known to do. Would his yell shake the earth? :roll:

Anyway, dumb rant over. I wish I had something awesome to say as Racheypie falls apart. :( Did anything new happen to make things worse? Hugs. And to DCJ as well, with all those inner demons. :(


Just caring is awesome Data, you are awesome! Nothing new just... lots of pressure. Very busy, and I've been working every day so it's constant sensory input, constant socialisation. I didn't get enough time to recuperate, it has built up, and here I am. Shattered to pieces.
I started seeing/hearing things at work today, I had to bail early.

I never reply to texts on time, people expect you to get back to them right away but why? As long as it's not urgent they can wait; text is really invasive, it lets people step right into your day and demand something of you.
That is a very skewed idea of text conversation lol, I know, but I really do find it quite stressful.



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28 Dec 2016, 6:10 pm

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I never reply to texts on time, people expect you to get back to them right away but why? As long as it's not urgent they can wait; text is really invasive, it lets people step right into your day and demand something of you.
That is a very skewed idea of text conversation lol, I know, but I really do find it quite stressful.


Indeed...

Maybe the rise in Autism is caused by a failure to establish some basic social rules in society.

If I can't walk up and ask you questions then why can I light your pants up and cause s**t to beep and vibrate all over you to do the same?



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28 Dec 2016, 6:20 pm

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If I can't walk up and ask you questions then why can I light your pants up and cause s**t to beep and vibrate all over you to do the same?


:mrgreen: That's a great way of putting it.

People who text me are used to it by now, I straight-up tell them why I don't reply right away. I figure it's better to explain I'm generally antisocial, rather than let them take it personally.
Of course, 'people who text me' is a tiny demographic lol.



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28 Dec 2016, 6:23 pm

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