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How long are you planning on pushing that barrow?

I know who you are and what you're doing. You don't fool me a bit.

I consider leaving WP every time I see a post of yours.

If we lived in closer proximity to one-another, I would ask you if you'd like to get together, sometime...

I don't understand this thread at all. I thought NT's kept things to themselves and Aspies told the person exactly what was on their mind. Posting anything negative here about another member is no better than what NT's do when they talk bad about someone behind their back. Just tell the person already what you're really thinking about them and get it off your chest. You might just find out that you may have misunderstood them in some way and end up actually liking them in the process. OR if you like someone, saying something might start a whole new friendship with someone that may have never knew that you even existed before.

All this thread does is make people paranoid wondering if they are the one the person is talking about in the post. What good can come from that? If someone pisses me off then I say something and I don't act fake around them the next time I come in contact with them. If I like someone, then I compliment them. And no one here seems to PM anyone. I don't get that at all. And you want to know what's sad? There's even a thread where members post that they'd love to receive PM's and would answer. Just pick one and PM them! It's not going to kill you if the person doesn't return your PM. It's their loss. Simple as that. That's how friendships start.

Sometimes, it's best to remain anonymous so one doesn't start useless arguments. Sometimes, the peeves are so petty that it's not even worth bringing them up.

I think this thread serves a useful purpose.

Then it's best to probably keep it to yourself - that's why NT's don't come out and say the truth all the time because its rude and makes people feel bad and may start an argument.

Sorry, no, that was an example. Nothing you've ever said has bothered me at all. Not even slightly. Of the posts I've seen I agree with you.

I know for a fact a lot of them aren't. Like people talking about Facebook, I know those aren't to me. But some are very general and could apply to everyone here.

Saying what you think to someone, particularly something negative, has its problems. You may cause an argument with someone who you didn't really have too much of a problem with what they were saying and then become enemies. They may say they don't have to do everything to please you. Basically it's just gonna cause problems. If they ask my opinion I'll say it, but I really don't want to come off as a dick and I wouldn't know how to even word it. I'm never gonna agree with everything everyone says and I don't want to cause conflicts by saying I don't like something and expecting them to change or however that works.

The post I made here I think the person I was talking about would know it's them but I'm too scared to say it directly to them in case they hate me. I don't want anyone to hate me.

I guess I worded my post wrong - I know you were just using me as an example.

"Hate" is a pretty strong word and I would hope most people don't hate. There's always going to be people I don't get along with and I would usually just ignore them, but now I try to talk out the problem that I'm having with some and have even been able to put back a sort of "acquaintanceship" so we can at least get along and maybe even start actually liking each other.

I like this thread!
It's like an emotional dumping ground.
If you don't want to step in what I dump, don't tread here.

Ok. I must think differently then. I must say I don't like reading any negative posts and believing that it is me they are talking about, but not knowing for sure. So for the record, if anyone has anything to say about me that is negative then please PM me about it instead of posting it here as I would appreciate it more so I may be able to change or explain whatever it is about me that someone doesn't like. From here on out, I am going to presume that any negative comment posted here is not about me and that goes for anything positive, as well, cause again I wouldn't be sure it was about me anyway.

nurseangela, One reason I like threads like this is because I really suck at talking to people, especially if it's something negative. I can discuss a topic just fine, but if I have to talk about someone, to them, I can't. And I have no idea how to word something to someone that's positive without seeming creepy... I get so much anxiety building up if I even think about talking to someone, and writing it down helps relieve it a lot, especially if I don't think they'll see/know who I'm talking about. It's not ideal... but it's something. It'd be more ideal if I could just talk to people.

I get that too. No idea how to even word it without coming off as a creepy f****r, but there are some users here that I get interested if I see the last post on the topic was by them and will read their reply because they always make an interesting point even if it's the opposite to every other point previously in the thread. I'm worried that by messaging these users, however, I may scare them or be perceived as a creep or whatever. Just worried it'll be misunderstood I suppose.