Recidivist wrote:
I don't get how someone will talk at you for near on 3 hours while you try to feign interest and every time you try to say something you are cut off so you keep quiet and slowly let your ears get overstimulated to bursting point. Then you a get a gobfull for not saying anything during the 3 hour load of bollocks being spouted at you.
I just bluntly say, 'well I couldn't get a word in because you were talking so much.'
I had a friend who did that. She would phone me and talk non stop without breathing for 2-3 hours. She would get a bee in her bonnet about something, usually a potential boyfriend, and discuss him endlessly while I just had to listen. It would be a boyfriend I had never met so I had no interest in minutely analysing his behaviour because I didn't know him.
So once I said to her, 'can we talk about people III know sometimes and things III enjoy? All we seem to talk about is people you know and I don't know them so I don't know what to say.'
She did actually listen and start asking me about myself on our loooooong phone calls.
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