And what about you "not being qualified to give advice" on how to woo him, what on earth does that mean? Are you a 60 year old virgin or something? Or are you unable to look at it from an objective POV? (the existence of jealousy would not surprise me in the least)
I can only guess, either you have no ability whatsoever to put yourself in my place and understand my feelings, which I doubt, or else you do understand and you're doing this out of spite.