I'm totally against words being good and bad. That's the same thing as superstition with numbers. Like I'm going to hell if I use the number 666. At least 666 is in the Bible whereas the f word is not. The ones with God in them, I don't use because I think it's disrespectful. I don't think it's a commandment breaker because I think that commandment was more like the Crusades like killing people in the name of God...now that's the commandment breaker. Spanish Inquisition used the Lord's name in vain more than GD ever could. In fact, most churches do that on a regular basis that heathens like me don't really have to.
As far as normal cusswords, I usually tell people when they are Ohhhh fended that if they can name the person who deemed that word bad, then I would stop using that specific word all together. Nobody has yet to name a name. However, some people on this forum have speculated that cuss words came about from the difference of words used by poor people as opposed to the rich. That just makes it all the more reason for me to want to use them. I figure the rich can't afford much if they are too good for McDonalds and the F-word.
I will say I watch my mouth in cases where it does matter, like employment.
Also, i don't try to always degrade people with cussing. Most of my cussing has nothing to do with anyone; however, I will use them strategically when arguing with someone as it is somewhat intimidating to people (I don't know why). But in front of my kids, I'm not sure how I will handle that. I don't want to set the wrong example, but at the same time, I want them to have a nice bank of comebacks to jump to when in confrontational situations, and I'm sorry, but if a kid calls my kid fat, and she turns around and says "Do I look like your mama?", she's going to appear much cooler to the majority of the student population than if she responds with, "that was inconsiderate and rude on your part."
I also think it's funny (strange funny, not haha funny, okay well both) that adults will only notice that there isn't a distinction between calling someone a bad word and calling them anything when they are dealing with their children. From grown up to grown up, they act like it's okay to call me stupid, but it's not okay to call me a stupid b-witch word. Even calling someone mean is degrading them the same as if you called them an a$$hole.
Again, i've said it before and I'll say it again, it makes absolutely no sense to me that the FCC will not allow cuss words such as the f-word but it will allow every synonym for it. Even funnier to hear the radio edit out the f-word in that Lil John and the East Side Boys song with, "I'll skeet skeet skeet skeet skeet skeet" as opposed to "I'll skeet skeet mother fworder" Obviously they don't know what skeetin is lol FYI, it means to come, get off, etc. Props to the FCC for cleaning up the air waves .