I never found Santa creepy. I always thought he was a composite character, partly Western Marketing, partly a Dutch man who was known to be kind to the poor, and partly an early Turkish bishop named St Nicklaus.
He was called St Nicholas in the 18th century so he predates Coca Cola. Coca cola just came up with his contemporary image.
I was always a fan of Santa. I grew up in days where a man could be a kind uncle or grandfather or neighbour and have noone think he was a paedophile, unless he was one of course.
When I was 4, my cousins were talking about how Santa wasnt real. Then me and my brother went shopping with my parents and we saw our presents in their trolleys. So we both knew pretty early on that it was really our parents.
When I was 9, I went to stay the night at this girls house, also 9, I didnt know her well but it was sort of a playdate idea of my mothers. The girl had a 12 year old sister. It was 2 days before Christmas.
We were playing outside and the girl said "I cant wait to see what Santa brings me this year."
I said "What? You still believe in Santa? You are 9. There is no Santa."
She said, distressed "Yes there is. My parents said so."
I said "No, your parents should have told you by now. There is no Santa, and you are far too old to still believe in him."
The girl started crying and the sister said "What's wrong?"
I said "She still believes in Santa and I was telling her there is no Santa. Your parents should have told her years ago."
The sister, trying to defend her sister from the Bull In A China Shop aspie kid, said "There is a Santa."
I said "What? You are 12? Your parents never told you either? That is incredible."
We went back to the house, the girl still crying (I didnt realise she would be upset, being an aspie and everything) and still arguing with the older sister, not realising that the sister was just saying that to protect her sister from me. That was too complicated a social concept for me to understand...
There was no sleepover in the end. They phoned my mother and I was sent home. I didnt understand why I was sent home and my mum had to explain to me what had happened as I was very confused.
Everyone was happy to blame me but I still think her parents were idiotic for letting her believe until she was 9. The longer the child is allowed to believe an illusion like this, the harder it will be when they find out, especially if an aspie tells them.
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