philosophylover wrote:
My father is a virgo (like many of you guys said you were virgos) and he displays many AS traits. (no diagnosis though).
I myself, am a libra.. I don't know how that translates, probably a strong sense of "right and wrong" hahah
Libra is an Air sign--the intuitive-rational group of signs. I's ruled by Venus, which co-rules the brain with Mercury. Mercury tends to be associated with rational thinking, and Venus with the emotional, but like the human brain's rational and emotional "sides", the division between what Venus and mercury represents has many overlapping points. But one distinct between a Mercurial type my me and a Venusian type like someone with strong Libra or Taurus influence in their chart is Mercurials are more communicative--we seek out opportunity to communicate. I'm the type of Aspie who'll talk you ear off. Venusians are a bit more quiet, more receptive, more willing to let other initiate communication. Both Mercurials and Venusians are observant--we're always thinking about what's around us, but Mercurials tend to be more concerned with ideas while Venusians with other people. Both Mercurials and Venusians are very sensitive types.
Libra is concerned with balance--that's what the scales represent. Ying and yang. Everything n its right balance. Peace and harmony. My dad who was very Aspie-ish, probably an Aspie like me, was a Libra. He hated discord, arguing, debating, tension. He'd withdraw from that quickly. He could be very indecisive--a common trait of Librans, always seeing both sides of an issue. And like a typical Venusian. he always waited for someone else to start a conversation. Now, an non-Aspie could have all these traits--the difference with someone liek my dad was, his social deficits made it even harder for him to articulate and express his need for balance and harmony, just like I, an Aspie Gemini, have a hard time articulating my need for communicating. And the two of us together--him wanting to withdraw at the first sign of tension, and me perpetually frustrated over not being able to communicate as I want, well, let's say we had a pretty difficult relationship!! !!